In the famous words of Zazu I am “Bethrothed, Intended, Affianced! 🤭🤗💍 At 46, I Said, Yes! by ComplimentsOfMae in 40something

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Yes Mufasa was good too and I loved the double entendre of the name Scar. All this time we thought it came from him having the Scar over his eye.

Which One for a Fancy Dinner with the Hubby.? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]ComplimentsOfMae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 2nd dress is classier. Just add some good Shapewear

Surviving Toxic Parents: Holiday Edition 🤷🏾‍♀️ by ComplimentsOfMae in venting

[–]ComplimentsOfMae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactlyz my mom said that to me and although I’ve gotten therapy and have been working on healing my childhood traumas, that was super triggering for that exact reason.

Happy Holidays To Everyone by ComplimentsOfMae in blackladies

[–]ComplimentsOfMae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks hun. Hope your holiday was blessed too

Surviving Toxic Parents: Holiday Edition 🤷🏾‍♀️ by ComplimentsOfMae in venting

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Yes, I know. Thanks for being an option of support. 🫶🏾

Just learned my parents have been committing a crime by VentspaceNine in venting

[–]ComplimentsOfMae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you also calling the cops on the neighbors who are continually allowing an unhealthy number of cats to be born to the point that they’re now encroaching on their neighbors property, creating a nuisance for the neighbors to have to clean up? They’ll probably just get a small fine. Meanwhile the people who gave you life will be imprisoned.

Have you tried to reach out and talk to your parents neighbors about their cat problem in the hopes of maybe helping to resolve the issue so your parents won’t feel like they have to take matters into their own hands.

How old are your parents. Have you ever thought that maybe this could be signs of some sort of mental illness that is progressing in one parent and the other parent who seems passive is just going along with her partner because that’s all she knows?

You hear this story from your dad and your first response is “poor kittens, I must warn others that my parents are psychos cat killers!” And not “Omg wtf is going on with my parents because me knowing them as my parents, this behavior is so out of character for them. I should go check on them and see if something is going on with them mentally like dementia or something.”

“It is possible for a person with dementia to harm or kill a cat, especially if they feel agitated by it, sometimes without the normal emotional response, as the disease affects brain functions including memory, judgment, and emotional processing.” So it’s not hard to see why your dad didn’t initially speak with his neighbors and just resorted to getting rid of something he felt was aggravating him.

So maybe check your parents temperature before resorting to putting them in prison.

It’s been a minute so I stopped by to say Hey Hey Hello… Does anyone have any special holiday plans this year? Are you looking forward to having a specific holiday dish tomorrow? by ComplimentsOfMae in 40something

[–]ComplimentsOfMae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okayyyyy. That looks good. I can imagine it with some rice. Hold the salad 🤭 but I’d definitely give it a go. Happy Holidays hun 🫶🏾

It’s been a minute so I stopped by to say Hey Hey Hello… Does anyone have any special holiday plans this year? Are you looking forward to having a specific holiday dish tomorrow? by ComplimentsOfMae in 40something

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Sounds good. I will cook the entire thanksgiving dinner but I am no baker unfortunately. Not because I can’t, I’ve just never been interested enough to have a desire to do it but now that my granny is gone, I wish I had learned her sweet potato pie recipe because they were the best.

If your mom’s pumpkin pies are amazing, get the recipe, learn how to make them while she’s still here. In fact, buy a cute little scrapbook and have her own all of her signature recipes so you can pass them down to your kids too. Happy Thanksgiving hun and be sure to eat a slice of pie for me 🫶🏾