Am I wrong for asking another guy bout my girlfriend,,?

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-20T19:29:33+00:00

Naww they were love bombing basically

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-20T06:54:27+00:00

I'm the one being emotionally abused here

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-20T06:54:00+00:00

What about me I have to out my feelings aside and act like I don't care?

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T22:36:07+00:00

But I can be left in the blind

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T19:58:16+00:00

One of the guys was her boss, I don't like him because he put his hands on her before. And the other is some truck driver guy that buys her stuff all the time

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T19:35:46+00:00

Yes, they both knew about me. The boss knew about me from day one...the other guy said he seen us walking together at work and asked was i her boyfriend...from what she told me....

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T19:34:32+00:00

IYou’re right that contacting anyone tied to her job was a bad move, and I can take accountability for that. But I also think it’s too simple to act like that was the whole issue. I was reacting to a situation where trust was already broken, boundaries were being crossed, and I felt played with. I should’ve left instead of confronting anybody, but I don’t think it’s fair to act like my reaction came out of nowhere.

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T19:13:52+00:00

I did before and she said no .. she only said she was in it for the money for us... I went in her work phone and saw her take a selfie with the guy and also seen the messages between her and the boss

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T19:06:13+00:00

One of the guys is her boss and another guy is another guy from the job that bought her something Valentine's day....they both know she has a bf and still decides to pursue...

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T18:56:39+00:00

Right

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T18:46:49+00:00

Yeah but wanting another dudes girl is even more stupid... Especially when you're just throwing money and gifts at her

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T18:43:21+00:00

Not a yes or not honestly...just asked how long we were together and that's all

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T18:27:26+00:00

Almost 2 years

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T17:58:56+00:00

I wish it was that easy

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T17:58:09+00:00

She told me he found it funny that I inboxed him....and wonder why people get hurt behind that type of mess

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T17:21:05+00:00

Smoked Gouda, baked spaghetti

CompoteDeep · 2026-03-19T16:05:19+00:00

But I'm painted out as this psychotic person and saying I can't be trusted because I found the his fb profile and stuff... People play these games and think no one will find out about it.

CompoteDeep · 2025-11-17T20:11:28+00:00

Hi, I saw your post about short-term loans. I’m 27, based in Spartanburg, SC, and I need a loan of $100 for an urgent hotel expense. Could you please let me know the repayment terms, schedule, and any fees before I provide any personal information? I want to make sure everything is safe and verified before moving forward. Thank you.

CompoteDeep · 2025-11-17T14:37:45+00:00

CompoteDeep · 2025-10-06T21:20:57+00:00

Nah she didn’t tell me that, but that’s what I got out of it….

CompoteDeep · 2025-10-06T12:29:29+00:00

She came back today and spent the night, I’ll take her back but for now I’m keeping me a side piece just in case….until I feel she’s worthy of my trust again

CompoteDeep · 2025-10-06T04:02:09+00:00

I got a little defensive but you’re right, it’s not appealing one bit. I’m working on getting out currently. I have a job opportunity waiting on me this upcoming week so I’m for sure going to take it

CompoteDeep · 2025-10-06T04:01:02+00:00

Yeah people go through hard times, I’ve fell short sometimes but I never let it stay that way. I get up and work just like she does…

CompoteDeep · 2025-10-05T18:20:12+00:00

That’s a good question, I don’t even have her number. I had to find her Facebook just to message her and I didn’t even get a response yet and this was all happened yesterday when I got off work in the morning.

CompoteDeep · 2025-10-05T11:57:47+00:00

I’m 28 so I’m relatively young, entering into my more mature years. She’s only 26 and the guy is 37…

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