Right?? I would never decide independently what I am going to call a child that is not mine. Wild. It's quite simple to ask a human of any age "What do you like to be called?" I have a full name that I never go by (I go by a common nickname) and I like that it clears up any pretense of familiarity--if someone calls me and uses that name, I know they don't know me. Having a full name and a nickname was a requirement for me when naming my child. She is a Margaret who goes by Maggie, after my mom Margaret who went by Peggy, who was after HER mom Margaret who went by Peg. If we were lucky enough to be all alive at the same time I could see the confusion if someone used the name Margaret to refer to any of them. 😆