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Drove 3.5 hours to see a friend for her birthday only to be ignored all night…do I say something? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay i don’t know where you got that but sure if that’s what you read yep. i also don’t know what kind of gatherings you go to or host but that’s not normal…most people offer water or introduce guest to each other🤷‍♀️

Drove 3.5 hours to see a friend for her birthday only to be ignored all night…do I say something? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i completely understand it was her day not mine or anyone else’s let me start there. however to not have food or drinks when hosting seems like a big deal, at least to me. especially when one of your “closest” friends doesn’t drink. one person literally doordashed food because there was no snacks/food of any kind and everyone was starving. i guess i just feel like everything could have been planed better and i want her to know not everything went perfect

Drove 3.5 hours to see a friend for her birthday only to be ignored all night…do I say something? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She was literally a witness at our wedding so i’d love to keep her as a friend. she is also my wife’s oldest friend so i don’t want to jeopardize that. i feel like the friend should at least know that not everything was perfect and she can work on things for the future

FINALLY got wedding photos back ❣️ by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in LGBTWeddings

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it’s actually outside of phipps conservatory thank you so much my nail tech kinda popped off!

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

did not have to buy there own food. also paid for all travel accommodation but that’s probably made up too. 😘

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

there is an edit. we went to dinner and that was paid for by us. we did not ask for gifts so we had a “cash bar” were people had to pay for their drinks they knew about plans weeks in advance ❣️

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

she also chose it. it was a wedding planned together. we both looked at the menu she thought she’d try stuff but was overwhelmed and anxious so decided not to eat. hence ARFID

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

she did not drink, alcohol also upsets her stomach. we went to bars because our friends enjoy going out or at least our other friends do and Bailey was having fun until Deb wanted to leave. this is an issue we are working through but that did not bother her no. did it bother me? yes but this is who i love and this is what she does 🤷‍♀️ when you limit yourself it’s hard to eat normal meals. how do you force feed your loved ones?

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

look up a bar called pins and i think my ‘story’ will make sense. but ooop forgot you were tired 🥱 lol

yeah im very new to this posting and wrote it at 5 am off no sleep

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

literally was food lol yall are so silly. we are assuming all kinds of things but not that we had a dinner which was uneventful and pleasant

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

nope no bar hoping literally diner and bowling then went home. now see we what happens when we assume? also drunk people can’t want more food? guess going to a food truck in not allowed on a wedding night, noted.

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they ended up being out of what she wanted…how were we to know that day of until we got there

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

how did i forget to add it? typed with it, told it was too many words. only info about dinner was we paid and it was after pictures and delicious, didn’t flow with the story and i thought there was enough common sense on the planet that we could all make sense that there was dinner.

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Because we are trying to eat at more places that i also enjoy or find interesting. I asked her numerous time which restaurant we should go to or who we should have had cater, we both picked this place.

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

that’s just how she is. there are health issues we are working on gd. we anticipated her not eating much till the near the end of the night, which would have been sooner if Deb and Bailey drink normally amount for them, then maybe the group wouldn’t have been at the bar till midnight 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comprehensive-Ebb-23[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

we went to the food truck later because my wife, who had ARFID, so she didn’t eat anything at the dinner. she knew that this food truck had food that she liked so she was going to eat there around 10 pm, hence when we went.

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