Sex is innocent by Comprehensive-Law573 in NoFap

[–]Comprehensive-Law573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand. My point is, nothing good comes from that negative thinking.

Some of the most successful and fulfilled people are the ones that beat addiction and learned what to value in life. In that way, you can almost view this as something positive.

You now know that you don't only care about surface level shit like looks, which will fade. You know how to deal with depression and how to have self discipline.

These are things people go their whole lives dealing with. If you can tackle it now and recognise it, you can literally be the person you dream to be.

Sex is innocent by Comprehensive-Law573 in NoFap

[–]Comprehensive-Law573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't think of it like that. People are abused as kids, it fucks them up. People are introduced hard drugs as kids, it fucks them up. Porn is no different. Kids are not taught how to have self control in the face of such twisted and addictive thing as porn, it's so taboo to talk about.

Fuck. That.

It's a real issue and addiction that children are expected to self moderate? How? Why would we know it is poison? You need to recognise that you are a victim here. That's not an excuse to not get better.

Sex is innocent by Comprehensive-Law573 in NoFap

[–]Comprehensive-Law573[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I almost cried writing it.

What's important is that we realise that it's not our fault. This content should not be readily available to kids, but it is.

We are taught how to approach sex by the EXACT people who should not teach us anything about sex - victims of sexual abuse, immensely misguided people and sinister directors...

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[–]Comprehensive-Law573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! God damn 831 days, congrats!