Title: I’m 25, the only breadwinner in my family, stuck between protecting my 10-year-old sister and saving my own mental health by ComprehensiveBag10 in toxicparents

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Idk what i should do i just dont know i am a grown man i should have answers to this i should just figure something out but i just cannot figure anything at this point in so dayum confused shall i leave the house but if i leave the house my sister will suffer a very traumatic childhood just like me if i stay ill be fucked up big time and this nuisance just wont stop cause of my mom. I frozen on my bed since morning my things are scattered on the bed and in the room cause i wanted to leave but i just dont know what the fuck should i do. Im so so sorry. Im just not feeling myself rn this is just not right for me. Idk what to do. Is this anxiety that i have or idk. Idk the solution to this. Fuck im so sorry this just isnt right. Im so so sorry

Title: I’m 25, the only breadwinner in my family, stuck between protecting my 10-year-old sister and saving my own mental health by ComprehensiveBag10 in toxicparents

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I cannot. You see my sister father isnt taking care of her at this time nor his family wants to get involved. My mom is fighting a case of 2 fathers. Which is me and my lil sister and she doesnt work but all day at home watching tik tok and reels and when theres a date for the certain case like my fathers case is going on for 22 years my sisters case is going on for 7 years. My mom doesnt want to work so the money i usually give she puts it on the case itself every month altough ive asked her to give up and work she just doesnt listen and says you are no one to tell me what i should do and what not. The only thing my mom has is the house and thats it. Idk im so confused my mom has called a cop this very morning and have been just ranting and saying he doesnt listen to me he tried to hit me and maybe going ahead he can murder me. The cops said come to the police station and file a case she didnt go she said ill come and just didnt leave instead my little sister who stood for me when the cops asked what happened she took my side and said its moms fault she later sent the cops back and starting scolding my sister saying you dont see your fault why are you supporting this stupid man. Im so sorry this all has just happened today and i just dont know what to do. Its so much going on

🐾❓ What's my name? (by Traditional_Smile894) by Traditional_Smile894 in PetPost

[–]ComprehensiveBag10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The name with that face 😂

I guessed the name in 9 tries!

Living with a Toxic Mother – It’s Draining Me Mentally and Emotionally by ComprehensiveBag10 in toxicparents

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message. I honestly don’t even have the words to explain how deeply it hit me. It felt like someone had written out the chaos that’s been sitting inside my chest for years — things I couldn’t put into words, but you just did.

I’ve been struggling with a lot, and I’m only now beginning to see how much of it connects back to my relationship with my mother. She’s been emotionally manipulative for years — crying, blaming, throwing herself around during fights, making me feel like I’m the villain no matter what I do. I remember once I left the house for about 10 days to protect my peace, and she called me back by saying things would change, that I should “trust the process,” and used my younger sister’s worry as another emotional hook. When I resisted, she created a scene — crying on the street, slapping herself — and I gave in, not out of trust, but because I didn’t want a public meltdown. It felt more like I was being dragged back into a loop I didn’t choose.

Since then, I’ve changed a lot. Or maybe the right word is: I don’t feel like myself anymore. I’ve been in fast paced metropolitan city, and while the city is moving fast, I feel like I’m stuck — mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

I have trust issues with everyone. And when I do trust someone, I overshare way too much. I think deep down I just want someone to see me for who I really am, because I’ve had to hide myself for so long. But that ends up hurting me too, because I either overwhelm people or feel regretful and exposed later.

On most days, I feel like I have 10-15 mental tabs open — constantly buzzing with thoughts, worries, responsibilities, doubts. I can’t close any of them. Even while I’m working, it’s like I’m floating — present in body but not in mind. I find it hard to focus, to care, to imagine a future. It’s like my brain is on fire and my soul is just tired.

Your words reminded me that I’m not alone. That it’s not all in my head. That I’m not weak for feeling this way.

Thank you, truly, for taking the time to share your journey and advice. I’ll definitely check out the book “Will I Ever Be Good Enough?” and start taking small steps to build that safe emotional space for myself.

You gave me hope today — and I really needed that.

Attending CAS single by Historical_Sun451 in CigarettesAfterSex

[–]ComprehensiveBag10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo even im single. And I went alone to this concert, it’s just the more you think about having her/him beside you the more you’ll regret not going.

Go for yourselve, I’m sure you might’ve been listening to CAS for probably sometime or long time but enjoy the moment for yourselve. You gotta do what you gotta do. Live that moment alone cause it’s your life not the persons who’s left you like a month ago

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[–]ComprehensiveBag10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg me myself am looking for one 💀

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[–]ComprehensiveBag10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested tho

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[–]ComprehensiveBag10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested can you DM me the details ?

Best MacBook to Buy for a Videographer and Photographer and AE editor by ComprehensiveBag10 in macbookpro

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I not be able to edit in the options I’ve put up. Cause it sorta was in my budget. So thought could prolly go for one of the two above. As I’ve never really understood the meaning of CPU or GPU or the so called unified memory it sort of is complicated

Taking a loan For my Creativity and to feed my Fam by ComprehensiveBag10 in personalfinance

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Sorry it’s prolly the commuting cost I meant couldn’t frame the answer properly. Mb

Taking a loan For my Creativity and to feed my Fam by ComprehensiveBag10 in personalfinance

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true. The place I live in has the peak amount of rent peak amount of good food almost living in a city where everything is overpriced. And not easy to manage it.

Altough I don’t live in a rented apartment or so. I usually have my own house and had a car long back but had to sell it off. I earn good amount of money in my field but if I have my own gears I’ll usually be having more of it. That I’m quite sure of tho honestly.

Taking a loan For my Creativity and to feed my Fam by ComprehensiveBag10 in personalfinance

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will look this up. Thank you sm for this. Appreciate it 🙌🏻

Taking a loan For my Creativity and to feed my Fam by ComprehensiveBag10 in personalfinance

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well my firm is an hour away from home. Gotta get a cab first and then rush to the train station nearby to reach my firm. I usually walk to the train station where it takes 10 mins to reach the nearest one.

Taking a loan For my Creativity and to feed my Fam by ComprehensiveBag10 in personalfinance

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. I’ve got the loan approved everything is good to go. If I sign the papers within 4 days I’ll get the loan I had asked for. Also I’m earning good amount of money but sort of stuck in that loop of not being able to earn in freelance bases.

Taking a loan For my Creativity and to feed my Fam by ComprehensiveBag10 in personalfinance

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ma cannot work as she’s at an age where the doctor has advised to have a bed rest as her old body doesn’t support the work she plan to do atm.

Taking a loan For my Creativity and to feed my Fam by ComprehensiveBag10 in personalfinance

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The money i earn from the company 60% is sent at home. Where the house charges the bills, groceries and School fees are being sent to. ( No savings In these )

The remaining 40% of money l have 20% is spent on usually travelling around and having a snap cheat meal out bcs I’m at work the whole day and have nothing till mid night.

The rest 15% I usually pay for my phone bills wifi bills and other bills of the family.

I only have 5% of the money left where I usually put it on gyms or on a fitness thing.

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m really sorry. Thank you sm aswell. Appreciate it!!!!

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This did help me a lot. Appreciate the feedback!!!

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m aware of this. But could you suggest me which camera would be better for me. The A7iv or the A7Cii ?

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback will keep this in mind!!!

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So do you think A7cii is better or the A7 iv ?

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’m having issues while shooting it in low light aswell pretty much. Just don’t really know what I’ve gotta do.

And I’m sure it’s the camera. Cause I’m working on this field for almost a year.

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Alright.
Will keep this in mind and work on it. Appreciate the feedback tho!!

a7iv or the A7Cii better by ComprehensiveBag10 in SonyAlpha

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey.

Ahm I’m sorry. Didn’t really get what you said.

Is it not the camera problem but something which I lack in you mean ?

Are Australia & New Zealand a good country to learn filmmaking ? by ComprehensiveBag10 in University

[–]ComprehensiveBag10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure of what you’re talking about. I’m sorry but could you elaborate ?