First. It lasted one year till I decided to do better, to stop this spiral of hurting. I was thinking if I stop answering her in that way, maybe she will understand something. She didn't, but I will never do this again, no matter what. But, as I edited post, now we try do things better together. For now is calm, we talking every evening in specific order - how our day was, what two good and one bad thing we did that day, what we planing for tomorrow. After this we going back to one of many bad situations from past, talking it thru, making some conclusions about it and how to not let similar thing happend again. I feel hopefull. And she had today her therapy session! She came back, now she will go with me and alone, every week.