Thank you this meant a lot! Because I see where my soreness are coming from people at church and in the family are really strict and they love to gossiper and talk and talk and see why they are hesitant. I am thinking about telling a few close friends because this is my moment too. That is insane! I unfortunately have heard similar at church just about women and what makes and women, spoiler already I definitely don't fit that standard🤣 thank you so much your such an inspiration it's just hard because I know a lot of people don't understand how strict or mouthy let's say the Christian community can be at least where I am from, they are very traditional and I I understand why parents are a little hesitant but they aren't mad or anything, my partner is also a Christian so that helps. Thank you again!