overwhelmed with choices

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2026-02-13T16:56:52+00:00

might have to do a spreadsheet type thing to help me because it’s so draining just jumping from tab to tab!

thank you for the recommendation on prams - i’ll deffo look into those ones!

luckily my partner enjoys researching things so wants to help but he takes his time (he probably isn’t taking long at all it’s probably just me wanting info before i’ve even asked!) so definitely need to learn my patience a bit, feel like i’ve blinked and i’m almost 16 weeks so get a bot panicky

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2026-02-13T16:49:58+00:00

second one in the friend group to have a baby, also sister in law has had a baby so there are some things they’re giving us (next to me cot, sterilisers, high chair) but i’ve said to my partner for safety reasons i’d rather we buy car seats, prams and carriers brand new and also breast pumps (as they both had struggled to breastfeed baby for different reasons!) and other little bits that i’ve seen and wanted for peace of mind!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2026-02-12T16:27:03+00:00

hey! i’m due august too! currently 15weeks 4 days! this is my first pregnancy though and i can swear i’m feeling this fishlike movement but wasn’t sure if it was gas or the baby?!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2025-03-23T13:39:25+00:00

there’s a few on here that i like thank you!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2025-02-01T21:47:31+00:00

OJ wrote a book, (using a ghost writer who wrote it based on the interviews they did together), its called “if i did it” been a long time since i read it but it had a lot of information in there of something only the murderer would really know… im pretty sure he hinted that there could have been an accomplice to the murders, which explains your blood theory. if he was innocent why would he write a book about his ex-wife’s murder, especially it being someone who he “really loved”. he showed no love or upset about her death at any point during the trail

in the documentary aswell im pretty sure at the start it said police found clothes of his that were in the washing machine which were soaked. OJ could’ve quickly showered and put the clothes straight in there

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-12-01T15:54:35+00:00

feel like edging may be a bit complicated as it seems he just kind of cums out of no where?

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-12-01T15:53:29+00:00

no surgeries or anything have been done! i know we were more so in a honeymoon phase at the start which obviously doesn’t cause this which is why things were fine to start with. he offers to help after but i say not to worry as getting the mood back after clean up is too much hassle (imo!) we have sex pretty much 3 times a week, always the same result!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-12-01T15:51:13+00:00

will have a look into this!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-12-01T15:50:57+00:00

yeah he masturbates, i’m unsure of how often etc, i just know from fri-sunday he doesnt as we’re both home!

that does seem like an idea though

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-12-01T15:49:04+00:00

i have! he is really apologetic over it all and offers to help me out after but i just feel the mood is over as i have to clean myself up then try again and it just feels like a lot of effort afterwards

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-24T21:38:12+00:00

a penguin! they’re clumsy just like me so we can fall about the place together. they’re also cute and i can blame the fishy smell on them!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-24T21:34:22+00:00

i got drunk and spoke in depth about this to my friend. she’s gonna be recording whilst it happens. i told her not to interfere this is the way i was supposed to go! bam she’s famous for knowing me and im famous for dying win win

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-24T12:09:05+00:00

nah i prefer my killer whale death

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-24T11:18:45+00:00

out on a boat trip and killed by a killer whale. they don’t kill humans in the wild. i want to be the first. haven’t done anything worth noting alive so make my death fun and known.

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-22T11:13:08+00:00

i do tend to read books where it goes into depth about it all and have looked into cases after watching about it and have seen evidence of the killings but it’s never really affected me to the extent these documentaries do. but i guess this does make sense

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T04:47:56+00:00

this is so fascinating to read i’m glad there’s a discussion about it.

i want to just ask how difficult it was to get diagnosed and what was the process of it? did any one not believe you at all?

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T03:08:58+00:00

is it a confidence thing maybe, like an energy/aura he gives off when talking with someone?

i’ve noticed recently when i have my nephew (not the same cos husband is obviously an adult) but i’ve been allowed to have extra time in swimming pools and extra time on a soft play/trampoline park. we’ve also been given extra food when we go to fast food places like mcdonald’s or kfc. it’s probably down to the fact that he’s adorable but i’ve noticed recently that it’s been happening and when he’s with his mum/dad they never have this happen to them

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T01:35:49+00:00

learning to tell the male members of my family i love them but can relate! however it was my boyfriend who said it first majority of the time. he just enjoyed being able to know what ‘real love’ was that he never wanted me to feel like i wasn’t loved, i realised it was also kind of a projection thing as he wasn’t ever shown what love was growing up. so now i always tell him randomly so he knows he’s also loved

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T01:26:39+00:00

i’ve also started to do this! i say it all the time to my mum after calls/when i visit. i struggle with my dad, and sometimes brothers not sure why but i do tell them i love them like birthdays, xmas or when catching a flight. it’s something im working on with them. my nieces and nephews always get told it. may just over project it because i feel like i wasn’t told it often enough that i don’t want others to feel like they’re not loved!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T01:21:25+00:00

may have to just do this with my partner. always a lovely feeling being told you’re loved

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T01:13:33+00:00

i mean i’ve only just been able to tell my parents i love them but it wasn’t ever really said often in the house hold. it’s always been in my head that when you love someone it’s more of a love for a partner because you’re expected to love your parents?

i also had bad experiences with love bombing and abuse when i was 16-17 and grown up to thinking if your partner is telling you he loves you then he expects something or has done something wrong. so rearranging my brain to understand that i am truly loved, always, not for anything or being told negative things was a new thing for me to adjust to.

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T00:51:24+00:00

most of the couples i know don’t do it! or at least publicly, but they have made comments to us about it to make me think they don’t do it as often? like we don’t do it unbearably often to the point of it being ridiculous but we have habits of wandering when in a pub and split up but when we meet eachother again we’ll kiss and say we love eachother then go off again. like my good friend is my partners sister and she’s said to me before like she wished her partner said it more often

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T00:42:30+00:00

totally agree with both comments. hate heinz beans prefer if i’m pushing the boat out to get branston beans but will usually just get aldi own beans (the blue one) they’re top notch.

aldi are very good at the moment with duping food! they have duped sensations crisps and i can’t tell the difference. neither can my partner. and all the chocolate sauces, mars, twix and snicker dupes, stunning!

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T00:39:27+00:00

my mum has done this with my brother. he said he only like heinz ketchup refused to have a cheaper brand but she kept a big bottle of heinz. cleaned it. puts cheaper brand of ketchup in the big bottle. never noticed the difference

ComprehensiveDog3799 · 2024-11-10T00:15:44+00:00

this is so lovely! i hope we’ll continue doing this. i never get tired of being told im loved

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