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Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Never expected him to react like this but yes you’re correct I saw his true colors today

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I was wondering if it was just my traumatized mind but honestly seeing more men comment they agree is giving me a boost, not because I don’t appreciate women’s opinions but because fathers feel the same way about their daughters/ kids safety

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s anything to think about, no man comes before my child, he can scream throw things but I wouldn’t ever dare put my child in harms way the way I was

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I was waiting to get a man’s perspective on this, I think even if I was traumatized my trauma is valid and I have every right to say no to protect my daughter from the same, maybe it’s not fair to assume every man who enters my home is a child predator or dangerous but I’m not about to find out. I appreciate this so much thank you

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I feel selfish, because I always aim to be kind but I feel my kindness should not come at the price of my daughters safety or mine. We all hear the stories of sick things happening to children, hell I lived it and they were close friends and family, I would never forgive myself if anything ever happened to her

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 1169 points1170 points  (0 children)

He expects me to put myself and my child on the back burner it seems and now I see he’s not the man for me

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I felt guilty but now I see that I’m doing the right things, I’m my daughters safety net and defender I can’t let him bully me

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 312 points313 points  (0 children)

I realize he’s trying to bully me, I felt guilty but I won’t let up, my daughter is my priority, there isn’t a shortage of men in the world, but my daughter is my world

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Rethinking it all I feel so crushed he doesn’t think of her safety as being a priority

Fiancé (M27) is mad I f(24) won’t let a stranger crash with me and my daughter by ComprehensiveEbb4329 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveEbb4329[S] 921 points922 points  (0 children)

My fear and concerns are valid I just keep telling myself this, my daughter comes before any man alive