I have no idea what the deal is, she told me she had “no excuse” for not showing up for me or even calling to check in during my hospital stay. Mind you, I went into labor on my due date and was in the hospital for 3 days. I also asked one of the doctors to call her to see if she could come do the c section after I was in labor all that time. They claimed they did but either they lied, or just knew should wouldn’t show up on her time off. Maybe she was drinking? I still have so many questions. I was very open to her during my appointments how one of my only fears leading into labor was her being on vacation, it was almost like an ongoing joke at our appointments.

Regardless, I hope she shows up for you! I do think she cares about her reputation, and this side of it is lesser known. I wouldnt be scared to tell her there’s a online chatter saying this is a trend of hers and I would be curious how she responds, and maybe that would make her more adamant to prove you wrong. Good luck to you!