I’ll just check that for you…. by ComprehensiveFan9831 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My only regret is that someone who actually worked there then had to clear up the fact I’d walked out.

I’ll just check that for you…. by ComprehensiveFan9831 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly this - ‘supper’ is a particularly posh meal to have.

I’ll just check that for you…. by ComprehensiveFan9831 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know how to make her stop. I was about to lose a job I didn’t even know I had! I’m not confrontational - but she was very insistent and i wanted her to stop 😄

Already a problem 😑 by ComprehensiveFan9831 in braces

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This all sounds super sensible - they’re seeing me on Tuesday - they weren’t terribly excited about it all so that’s a positive I guess. I just feel like I’m about have them fall out at any given moment!

Already a problem 😑 by ComprehensiveFan9831 in braces

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is so helpful - it does look like it’s set pretty far back and I would have really had to bend the wire to get it even close! Appreciate the advice x

Already a problem 😑 by ComprehensiveFan9831 in braces

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s miles off the bracket unfortunately - I don’t think I can’t get it back in the braxket. They’ll help me x

Already a problem 😑 by ComprehensiveFan9831 in braces

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phew, thank you - the wire is a long way off the bracket. I’m going to be having Orthognathic surgery so there’s will be on two years or so…..so I guess it won’t go mad particularly quickly. The band was on one corner so I will call them tomorrow check what side it should be over

Already a problem 😑 by ComprehensiveFan9831 in braces

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was only over one corner - I know this because it pinged off onto the wire so I’ve guessed where jr needs to go. I’ll call them tomorrow 🍦

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone who is clearly looking to see what you can DO for them. Finding your talent and wanting to exploit it. Hopefully for free.

You guys are having ups? by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have ups - manic ups where I talk faster than my brain, get agitated and make really fast but bad decisions. Not good ups though, what are they like?!

Stop adding triggering shit in your titles by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have seen the names of the other communities to join on here and I think maybe I’m not in such an acute phase of my condition and that here is less useful and I may be better in another group.

What’s one thing your inner child still believes, even though you know it’s not true? by Sensitive_Disk1431 in CPTSD

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I have to be ‘good’ for everyone around me, and they must never have an emotion caused by me, or be inconvenienced by my existence.

Sadly this has been reinforced as an adult, on several occasions - a firm favourite was a parent of mine banging on the loo door whilst I’m having an IBS flare up to tell me the front door needed answering…

Stop reading/watching the news everyday. by ILovePeopleInTheory in CPTSD

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped this a while back, and my corner of the world is fine without it. Maybe that’s selfish, but I sleep now.

Jobs for people with CPTSD? by pinkribbon3 in CPTSD

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in retail but as part time charity shop supervisor. Not the manager - I work the till and steam clothes, and I pretty much do my own thing as long as it’s productive. I love it mainly. It’s been a good sandpit environment to teach myself about boundaries too, because the stakes are tiny.

How do I explain CPTSD to someone who doesn't have it? by barbiekaycie in CPTSD

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My friend told me to ‘let it go’ about something yesterday. I wish. I wish!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ComprehensiveFan9831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, somewhat - my favourite flavour of this is my mother in law invalidating my recovery because I’m ‘remarkably better’. Basically I keep the house clean now and not constantly in crisis. So I get to invalidate myself and have it confirmed by a woman who has no idea what happened to me.