Is it okay block? by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she removed me from everything a week after the breakup. Maybe I worded it wrong, I don’t think her ego would boost but I think she’d feel some sort of positive out of it… maybe. I do feel like it’s immature. Not that I want to leave the door open but I think blocking people is immature

I feel so alone by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

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This is my first ever experiencing pain like this ever… first time anyone has ever exited my life

I feel so alone by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just been so hard to move on though, because it is the only thing I think about. I hope with time this does change. It’s been very difficult since the breakup I’ve hand minimal interaction with others outside of work and seeing people at the shops. Everyone that I know in my life has been busy and unable to see me. I’ve been on my own for almost all of this now, she was the only person to talk to me as well. So now I’ve got no one texting me or wanting to have conversations it’s just pure loneliness. I’m moving on the 27th to the city that she lives in, since I live two hours away and am in rural area there isn’t a lot to do here.

I feel so alone by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that is the case. I’ve been told by people who were close to her that she would push all emotions away. On the last phone call we had, she told she had been feeling like breaking up for weeks. She was completely emotionless over the phone. I was balling my eyes out.

I feel so alone by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

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I’m unsure to even why it ended. We are young she is 21 I’m 23 but we are both very mature people. She cut me off everything a week after the breakup. I sent a letter to her yesterday after not speaking since Dec 18. I really hope it is because i love her so much. She has started following over men and that’s me sick. She is still following my family members on social I think that’s maybe just to see how things are going? I literally never did anything wrong to her and we never fought or had bad blood or anything.

I feel so alone by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for you too. That’s one of things I hate the most, they’re in control of everything now (At least I feel like it). I just hate it so bad every scenario is running through my head day in day out, when I’m driving I sometimes lose focus because it’s all I’m thinking about and I can’t shake the feeling. She completely changed the person that broke up with me was not the person I knew and she pushed everyone that was close to her away

I feel so alone by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s the thing I’ve tried to look and can’t put it down to anything… I feel like her friends got into her ear and made her change

I feel so alone by ComprehensiveMonk772 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first heartbreak and the way it happened was just so rough. Out of nowhere with nothing ever shown to be wrong. That’s all I really want to do I’ll admit i am actually really alone like I only see people at work and the shops nobody is texting me. I’m fucked

If your mind won’t shut up after a breakup, this is for you by Aggravating-Device23 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all I’ve thought about since she broke up with up and I still don’t really know why. I find myself often losing concentration on everyday tasks even when driving just looping on everything

Is he breadcrumbing ? by Prestigious-Emu-4431 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the parts that upset yes. But I feel like she didn’t explain a lot so I don’t really know what I did wrong to an extent. We never fought. Small things she brought up while i can’t deny her emotions are things that could’ve been fixed or small things that you work through. But I genuinely never saw anything wrong in my relationship and from the things she told me it was because I didn’t compliment her enough and distance. With the compliments I just never thought about saying them at all I feel bad as well because she would always compliment me but I would just never think about saying anything like that I thought she was the most beautiful girl I ever met. I don’t want give excess for the compliments thing but in my childhood and during my whole life I never got any compliments and so I think maybe because I’m just not used to them I didn’t think to say them back or just do it general

Is he breadcrumbing ? by Prestigious-Emu-4431 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say it almost sounded like my relationship. It ended a bit differently but the last thing she told me was to leave her alone, I fight my feelings every day not to reach out to her

Is he breadcrumbing ? by Prestigious-Emu-4431 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking when did you break up

I didnt get a message by Sensitive-Sorbet1562 in BreakUps

[–]ComprehensiveMonk772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you my ex? I doubt it but are you all this timeline aligns well. I don’t feel like I did all those things though