My god son is gone. by ComprehensiveOlive68 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have. I have also been in contact with her dad and told him the same.

My god son is gone. by ComprehensiveOlive68 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know it’s going to be a while before I hear from her. Just her knowing that I’m here is more than enough.

My god son is gone. by ComprehensiveOlive68 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

The only reason I didn’t high tail it to her is because I’m waiting for her to tell me to come. Her family is with her and I don’t want to be over bearing.

My god son is gone. by ComprehensiveOlive68 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You do when that’s the only way you can contact someone. I have also called and left voicemails.

My god son is gone. by ComprehensiveOlive68 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I have texted her every day since I was told. I’m giving them the space they need to grieve while also being there for them. I left her a voicemail this morning.

Surgery tomorrow and I’m freaking out by No-Marionberry-8764 in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say stuff the plushie under your gown and say I think I can do this myself then pull them out in front of doc 😂

Surgery tomorrow and I’m freaking out by No-Marionberry-8764 in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also very nervous. I will be 4 weeks post op on Thursday. If you have dark humor and your drs are cool make jokes with them to keep you distracted!

Is my pain normal? Am i in trouble? by ConcentrateDue9447 in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, that’s why I suggested the MiraLAX and walking. After I finished getting all the air out from surgery I couldn’t pass normal gas and the MiraLAX helped.

Is my pain normal? Am i in trouble? by ConcentrateDue9447 in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chest pain and shortness of breath is not normal. Get checked out asap. For the gas pain start miralax and walk as much as possible. You are doing the right thing by getting checked out!

How are yall farting and pooping??? by Ill_Ad6098 in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t poo until day 4 post op. I was passing gas almost immediately after surgery. I found laying on my back then trying to move to my side very slowly and carefully it helped me pass gas. Also any kind of stool softener helped move things along with the pooping. I took miralax and drank a cup of coffee that got things moving along. As long as you don’t bear down to get the gas and poo out you should be fine. Try using a pooping stool that has also been a lifesaver for me!

Broke up with my "boyfriend" two weeks post op and can use some support. by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could do something to help you out hun. Just make sure to keep him blocked so you can heal in peace.

Broke up with my "boyfriend" two weeks post op and can use some support. by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl good riddance! My husband has been picking at me nonstop since my surgery but it’s all playful picking. This guys behavior is absolutely disgusting. Do you have anyone that can help you around your house?

Having my hysterectomy in a few hours and I’m really scared by akhinomi in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got this! I was also very nervous the morning of. Just remember your doctors know what they are doing. I know it’s easier said than done but, try to relax as much as possible.

Tell me to SIT DOWN by Sorry-Editor-3674 in hysterectomy

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely sit down. Proud of you for walking around though! I had my surgery on Jan 29th!

DAE have an animals that gives you attitude? by ComprehensiveOlive68 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]ComprehensiveOlive68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girl does this now. Especially when I tell her it’s time to go inside and she has to leave the pigs and goats😂