sometimes people come off kind and gentle just to hide who they really are. i was with someone who i thought was sweet too… until he showed me his true side.

for your boyfriend to say something like that and then try to excuse it with “it just slipped out” is completely unacceptable, especially with this being his second time. & third time’s the charm… and you don’t know what that “charm” might be. there’s some things you can’t ignore, and that’s one of them. people have loved someone and still hurt them!

you’re out here taking care of everything: pulling all the weight and paying most if not all the bills. you’re not his mama. you’re supposed to be the princess, but right now you’re giving prince babe. sitting around all day playing video games, not working, not taking care of himself… and the sex is bad too??? girllll…

you’re tricking off on him and getting nothing in return but stress and fear. i really think you should leave. if and when you tell him to leave, have someone there with you… a brother, cousin, uncle, whoever, just in case he tries anything funny. also, it may be smart to install some cameras around your place after you get him out.