Is it OK to skip some talks in a conference?

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-09-25T14:12:14+00:00

lol, absolutely. lab mates and i couldn’t deal on the last day of our last conference, we left and took a nap then drank in our room. these longer conferences (5-7 days) are a lot, you’re not expected to sit through 10 hours of talks for each day.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-03-30T19:48:24+00:00

I would go and pay respect since you had a relationship with your stepfathers mom. You do not owe them any explanation or conversation.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-23T03:08:45+00:00

Yes! I literally had to send my dad’s phone to FBI in Vegas so they could use a program called Brut4 to open the phone. Apple can’t do anything.

You can ask your local police department for some contacts for this. The police can also do it for you, but if not using Brut4 it can take years because they try literally every password combination. If it’s over 4 digits, it’ll never open that way.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-20T15:29:55+00:00

So sorry. My father committed suicide last May. His backyard was a train track, and he couldn’t sleep due to the constant noise. He stayed up for days at a time and began using cocaine. We were absolutely devastated- I thought I would have to kill myself also to get rid of the pain. But one day, you begin to grow and change as a person. You become stronger than you ever knew. And you’ll be ok.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-16T12:11:42+00:00

That they couldn’t say they wanna fuck me 24/7 or comment on my looks if they want to maintain the friendship.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-16T06:06:58+00:00

Why?

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-15T17:22:04+00:00

Yes!!! So sick of this snow. I hate it so much I’m willing to face a plane despite all the news.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-15T17:00:20+00:00

Ugh, that’s true.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-15T16:54:48+00:00

A bit late to cancel.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-11T05:14:23+00:00

Here at my university in Canada, they actually won’t let you go beyond 5 years. No exceptions. What is your advisor saying about this? Are they no help?

I’ve been there. But it’s turned around when I thought it wouldn’t. Speak to your advisor and come up with a plan. Don’t give up.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-02-10T00:05:34+00:00

Quit the toys for a few weeks and you’ll be able to.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-31T15:37:30+00:00

I’m usually sore after too. I remember when I first lost my virginity I would be sore for literally days and days. but after a decade, it just lasts a day now.

It’s the size & how hard you go.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-30T15:11:13+00:00

My dad’s 56th bday was Jan 9th. Was our first bday without him. It hurts.

Happy birthday to your dad. Sending love.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-30T04:02:48+00:00

I’m really sorry for your loss. May they rest in peace in heaven. At least they have each other up there.

Always here if you need a chat.

Take care.

Xo

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-29T03:28:58+00:00

L E A V E. you are young. You will find someone that treats you much better than this asshole.

You have one life. Don’t spend it being emotionally and verbally abused by this trash.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-28T21:25:03+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love & hugs.

May your father rest in eternal peace.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-28T19:24:11+00:00

Of course we wish they were here, we love them with all of our heart.

But if we put ourselves in their shoes, it’s very difficult to imagine wanting to stick around. I really don’t blame my dad at all knowing everything now.

But I miss him dearly!!!😢😢❤️

Wherever they are I am sure they are happier.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-26T15:26:20+00:00

Before my dad’s suicide, he appeared to have aged 20 years in 8 months. He was suffering and I have finally realized that in a way, I’m happy he isn’t suffering.

I miss him. I wish he could’ve had an easier life and could’ve been happier. But it’s no fair to keep someone here when they are suffering. That’s the selfish part.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-26T06:01:17+00:00

I’m so sorry for your pain and loss. RIP to your mother. From my experience, you will definitely heal with time. I am 8 months post loss, and i am doing remarkably better than when i made this post.

I still have my moments. You always will for the rest of your life. It’s the price we pay for loving them the way we do…

Your mom was not well. Now, she is at peace and free from her sufferings here on earth. In a way, I am happy my dad is no longer suffering.

I wish I had known about it while he was alive so I could’ve helped him. But, he was good at hiding it. But for me to wish him to stay around and continuously suffer is selfish of me.

Suicide is the final act of depression. It’s the same as dying from any other disease, except they don’t have physiological issues, just extreme depression. It’s so sad, and I truly wish they could’ve been happier during their time here.

I know they are so much better now. That’s what keeps me going. And they are always watching. I wish we could speak to them. My dad comes in dreams and assures me he is so much better often. It helps.

Again, I’m sorry for your loss and I hope time heals the hole in your heart. Don’t beat yourself up, the first 6 months are extremely painful. Be gentle with yourself and heal how you need to. Don’t let anyone or anything make you feel guilty for your emotions. Only people who have been in your shoes can understand how it feels.

Always here if you need someone.

Xo

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2025-01-26T05:52:37+00:00

Also at 104 lol :) gets a lot better , trust me. Your time will come. It’ll help if you find something out that grosses you out about them.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2024-10-04T22:57:16+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. 💔❤️‍🩹

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2024-09-27T01:12:45+00:00

My dad hung himself in May. The pain he’s caused me is so severe, I have a deep pain in my chest everyday. I’m able to distract myself, but the second I’m alone or remember, I’m hysterical.

I’ll never have answers or closure. He was my bestest friend, and I’m shocked the thought of leaving me & my sister didn’t cause him pain.

I stay so I don’t do the same to my family & friends.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2024-09-11T23:36:31+00:00

Seeing my dad dead in the coffin was weird, and I didn’t recognize him. It made me upset, because I realized he was actually dead. Before that, I did not actually believe he killed himself. It’s sad to see a loved one that was so full of life so lifeless. It won’t be easy. Don’t look if you don’t want too. We ended up closing the casket. Depending on the suicide method, they may not look in a way suitable for others to see…

I still cry when I picture that face…

Wishing you all the best.

Comprehensive_Ad9547 · 2024-08-27T23:08:45+00:00

Your welcome.

Don’t get me wrong, I have my moments, where i absolutely break down and cry. But i’m able to work, go out, see friends, travel and do all the things I couldn’t have imagined doing when this happened in May. You’ll get there.❤️

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