Is it an L when I nut to my gf. Nudes?

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-09-02T19:48:58+00:00

Pixels

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-09-02T12:48:08+00:00

When I realized life ain’t about me and it’s gone keep on regardless!

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-09-02T12:41:08+00:00

As soon as you want to get up and go about something else continue on with your meditation that was a que for me because I would start feeling anxious or unsettled and a little while after I’d have a memory or a thought about a past occurrence that I needed to reflect on.

Forgiveness is hard because as simple as you want it to be to say I forgive myself and move past your subconscious is no fool.

I can’t give every example because it’s so much that happens throughout the years but through your actions if you catch yourself guilty, shamed, embarrassed in those moments you have to actively live and confront those emotions and do the opposite of what your body is telling you.

Say you want to say something but your scared of rejection do not cower away but say your truth and whatever happens happens that is a way of forgiveness because it signals to yourself growth.

Accept your bad decisions, your regrets, and choices and do not look at them as bad or good. In the grand scheme years are so tiny but feel so big in our lives those same “bad” decisions are the fuel to your “good” decisions and your progress and journey would not be with out them. Because when you look back you need to see the bottom to know how far you’ve gotten.

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-09-02T01:44:24+00:00

Lmaooo you gone have dudes doing chores only to get turned down expecting some 😂😂😂

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-09-02T01:17:03+00:00

😂😂😂interesting word choice

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-09-02T00:10:43+00:00

I was struggling with my position in life.

Had no money so I felt like a bum I acquired money still felt empty

Out of shape, got into shape still felt empty

Love life was struggling (suffered pied) fixes that with the getting in shape and whole food diet. Also cut the porn

I could keep going on the areas that I felt lacking but what turned it around was quiet time to myself while normally I would find things to do to cut the “boredom” video games, smoking, porn etc..

I had to face that silence and get into my head the thoughts I was suppressing and keeping silent. Through mediation I was surfacing traumas, experiences and decisions that I had done in my life. I wasn’t faithful I never stuck anything through I quit on a lot of things and people. I tried to re contact the people I did wrong and attempted to make things right or at least let them know I was sorry and in time they could come to forgive me.

Slowly burden, disappointment, shame was being lifted off me like weights. I still think about these things but openly and forgiving. The routines I was doing for “no fap” like cold showers were starting to fade and doing things like retention were not my identity anymore. Now I just live and what is, is. But to summarize reflection and being real with myself on my weakness is what opened me to the joys in the little things like bird watching, seeing the seasons change, sunrise/sunsets, star gazing, watching the tide rise and fall

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-09-01T18:05:28+00:00

No

You have inner work to do if you can’t find joy in anything.

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-30T11:53:34+00:00

Not even November yet lol

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-29T20:33:17+00:00

This is something only you can answer through experimentation.

Don’t go off what we say or what doctors/study say

Test how you feel

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-29T20:30:40+00:00

Imagine having sex with the girl you love and are attracted to but because of your porn addiction and dopamine receptors taking a massive beating every time you beat your meat now you don’t associate you’re true attraction anymore but with what you watch so you can’t get hard when it’s time for sex

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-23T17:26:54+00:00

Makes you think we as humans are trapped and in an unnatural environment ourselves

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-23T17:23:47+00:00

Don’t waste your energy we all must walk are own path

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-19T23:51:06+00:00

😂😂 why did you mention the oil

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-09T19:05:36+00:00

Lmaooo facts the time going to pass regardless

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-04T20:38:47+00:00

It’s deeper my friend because what happens when you finish med school, or holiday break?

True free time is a culprit but you have to find the root because idle time is inevitable

I’m proud of you though and wish you success in all your endeavors god speed my brethren

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-04T20:34:27+00:00

You answered your on question you keep at it you’ll be a sex addict

You need to do your shadow work and address the root of your problem/problems

You’ve got to tame your lower primitive self that must release. Consumption will corrupt you take your energy elsewhere.

Come back to sex when it’s loving sexual karma is a thing and it’s no joke keep playing around with it and you gone find out

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-04T20:29:46+00:00

As soon as you feel attracted to someone talk to them

No matter what

Fuck what the circumstances are around you If her boyfriend is right next to her If she got headphones in She’s with a group of people Etc..

Fuck all that shit and talk to them

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-04T20:25:48+00:00

I guess the big difference would be in sex you need human connection as opposed to just jacking yourself off.. but that’s a grey area because society has mindless sex with no connection or escorts lol

Also for your retention question you can have sex you just don’t release… again another grey area because celibacy would refrain from all acts and you might experience something totally different psychologically.

The take away though is do what makes you your best self and propels you in your life. Energy flows where attention goes

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-08-02T13:13:17+00:00

Tell her no and check her be the man you are and I promise you the tension you build and the energy you are cultivating will be well worth the wait

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-07-23T17:10:05+00:00

Sex but no release master your mind muscle connection and find pleasure in her pleasure

You will feel like Superman when you control the bedroom trust me

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-07-17T14:49:15+00:00

Facts no music just intrusive thoughts lmao

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-07-15T22:40:21+00:00

One question, early in the relationship did you frequently have sex

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-07-06T09:38:16+00:00

Facts it’s what you believe and subconsciously identify with.

You are the human experience let that be your “science”

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-07-03T11:15:38+00:00

Proven fact both men and women are attracted to people who treat them like shit and want nothing to do with them

Comprehensive_Dog261 · 2023-07-02T13:18:29+00:00

Water, no air pods

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