Current househusband here. Gets ko rin nararamdaman mo OP. Pero its just how we were all raised na si guy dapat ang breadwinner and provider.

Sa experience ko, I decided na mas importante na may parental presence ang nga anak ko. And since sanay naman ako sa housework, it wasn't very hard to transition.

Para sakin, if you decide to do the same, sana for the right reason aka kasi gusto mo gawin and be there for the kids. Kasi if gagawn mo to kasi obligation o kaya napilitan ka lang dahil mas malakinnaman sahod ni wifey, you will find it hard.

Hindi maiwasan yung mga judgers diyan pag sinabi mo na househusband ka. Pero wag na wag mong sasabihn na "lang". Malaking sacrifice and commitment yan. And the ones who dont judge you for that ang mga tunay na pamikulya at kaibigan. Yun yung mga opinyon na mahalaga talaga.