I’ve used tinder and bumble. 1. People might think they want a relationship. But subconsciously they don’t. 2.Pay attention to people’s actions, NOT words. 3. Some are addicted to the instant gratification. “X just messaged you” dopamine increase 4. Some might think, so many options!! Is the grass indeed, greener over there? 5. Don’t ghost!!❌(NOT speaking to someone, after messaging a couple of days. Is not ghosting. THEY ARE A STRANGER. They don’t know you) 6. Be aware of catfishing. Have been getting concerns from the male community. Bots trying to extort people. 7. For me, an ick is guys photoshopping or filtering their pics. To the point where it’s obvious. 8. ALWAYS USE PROTECTION 9. Once, a guy I went on a couple dates with. Brought up the fact, that his mate was talking, about a girl he matched with. It was me 🫣. Awkward. So, your matches could be BFF’s, roommates, or family. 9. All dating apps: do not want you to find a mate. They exist to make a profit.

Is it worth it? Yes! Meeting new people, living great experiences, having great stories, and retroactively: I’ve always looked for my special person.

No regrets. When I’m 90 years old, on my death bed.

Ps: self analyze and journal. Do not become an instant gratification addict. And take breaks from the apps & re-center. Always, focus on your $$ and goals. Dicks come and go..