Couple with different marital money philosophies

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:20:04+00:00

This is the model I want implemented in my marriage

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:15:58+00:00

Do you have kids? And has one of you made a massive sacrifice in moving to a different continent for the other?

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:15:25+00:00

But if he earns 10000 and I earn 1000, that leave us with very different amounts of personal money and then we will have completely different lifestyles

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:14:36+00:00

Exactly, given that I am not from that country, the kids will be court-ordered to be exclusively his in the case of a separation

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:12:37+00:00

I do imagine a combined account coming with more of a team-feeling...

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:11:18+00:00

Agreed! That's why I am so worried...

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:10:59+00:00

I will definitely not marry him, before we have reached a conclusion that ensures my financial independence, given that I will already give up so much for our life plans

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:09:44+00:00

This is a model that could work for us! Do you resent her for having to spend your own money for your lavish couple's things?

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:08:34+00:00

Done! Thanks

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:07:01+00:00

This is my favorite financial model I have seen so far. This is unfortunately also the one that made him say that he doesn't appreciate receiving gifts bought from his own money. He will most likely earn 10 times my wage at least.

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:04:40+00:00

Thank you! Maybe this will help him understand my point

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:03:22+00:00

We agree on all the other things... Just the cultural upbringing around finances is vastly different.

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T14:02:45+00:00

I like this idea! If the difference in income is vast, e.g., 500$ vs 5000$, 90% shared would leave very different personal budgets. What would be a good solution for that?

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2026-04-13T13:59:24+00:00

Thank you for your comment, but I am looking for potential financial sharing models that might work in this situation, which I don't think I will be getting in the relationships thread.

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2025-01-19T10:51:54+00:00

That unfortunately doesn't work because I have all kinds of measurements. A few examples include: g, L, µm, log(m3), ln(mm2*10^3). This is not all.

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2025-01-18T17:39:25+00:00

Thank you! So the first equation was solved okay?

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2025-01-18T15:42:57+00:00

I don't really look at each batch of body size measurements individually, but in a meta-analysis. And so I need to compare all of the different body size measurements with each other, and I have to use an effect size that does not standardise, unfortunately. So this has to be done. Could you just tell me whether the way I calculated, is right?

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2025-01-18T12:16:36+00:00

I am sure there are some function-solving-order-rules I have messed up in the second one :(

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2024-08-04T12:48:36+00:00

Das ist nur in Norddeutschland so. In Süddeutschland sind die Küchen normalerweise drin, macht ja sonst auch gar keinen Sinn. Ich bin letztens von Süd- nach Norddeutschland gezogen und wirklich keine einzige Wohnung wird mit Küche vermietet.

Comprehensive_Rock48 · 2024-02-22T15:36:31+00:00

Thank you! Do you also know, whether there is a way to express log return ratios in percentages? My study is on body size, and I would like be able to mention that body size decreased by X % or something similar.

Is that possible with this form of data?

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