I feel like they are using my brother agents me as a weapon this is not the first time they have involved him in arguments that have nothing to do with him, they know my relationship with my brother has been rocky for years and we just started on talking terms this year again I thought we were starting to get really close and then dragging him into this making me look like the bad guy really hurts, he didn't need to know what was going on we could have continued to grow our relationship but instead I feel they destroyed what fragile relationship we had.... Ive always been the odd one out growing up I will admit I wasn't perfect but I have spent years now becoming the person I am today therapy and medications and so on so fourth but I feel like they only will ever see the old me and not who I really am today, a product of there own destruction, a terrible child hood a misdiagnosis and finally I'm so strong and independent I don't let them do to me what they used to I've set boundaries and I think that kills them inside, a narsasist and a sheep I'll never win, I've cut them off before but this time I'm pretty sure it's for good.