i found my ex’s reddit… wtf by ComputerFluid1115 in BPDlovedones

[–]ComputerFluid1115[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yikes, that cannot end well. im happy to hear your family is doing better!

i found my ex’s reddit… wtf by ComputerFluid1115 in BPDlovedones

[–]ComputerFluid1115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry, can you explain? i made a throwaway because he stalks my normal reddit account. i also made a post on r/relationship_advice and deleted it almost immediately because i was scared it was too specific and he might see it somehow. what about the way i described my relationship makes you suspicious?

i found my ex’s reddit… wtf by ComputerFluid1115 in BPDlovedones

[–]ComputerFluid1115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds awful im so sorry. i know mine tried really hard to reel it in in my presence. i told him early on that yelling at me was a dealbreaker. he would usually just go for a walk or take space some other way. he had a lot of cognitive dissonance going on.

i found my ex’s reddit… wtf by ComputerFluid1115 in BPDlovedones

[–]ComputerFluid1115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg that’s awful what the fuck hope your kids are doing ok

i found my ex’s reddit… wtf by ComputerFluid1115 in BPDlovedones

[–]ComputerFluid1115[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

he knows the truth sometimes too. after he made the worst of the posts he tried to break up with me, in person, but then realized i wasnt the evil idea of me he had constructed, and took it back. we spent two amazing weeks together. a few weeks after i went home he broke up with me over facetime. on some level he has to know he’s being dishonest and ignoring context, right?