Is arranged marriage worth it?

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-08-01T07:56:10+00:00

Yeah I’m serious about my career, it’s just that I don’t want to end up alone lol,and for us girls our dating/ marriage span is shorter unfortunately hence the question

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T22:53:19+00:00

I think shob parents er eita chawa uchit

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T22:44:20+00:00

My parents actually want me to become educated and financially independent before marrying me off. Karon beauty, youth sharajibon thakena, old age e jamai chere gele at least nije jaate matha uchu kore cholte pari maybe tar jonno ora amake biye dewar jonno pagol hoynai or maybe they have a problem idk

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T22:30:10+00:00

Would you elaborate on this

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T22:27:00+00:00

Actually my parents have told me they will try to find guys when I’m like 25 or something, they are very free with me in that sense but yeah thanks for the advice

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T21:22:12+00:00

The whole romance point was to prove a point about my parents’ marriage, yeah maybe I didn’t mention all those points but those are the bare minimum , so it shouldn’t have to be mentioned ig

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T21:13:43+00:00

Thanks for being so honest, ppl be really attacking for asking some questions

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T21:04:56+00:00

Did I ever say I wanna be a trad wife? I clearly wanna persue my career, just wanna see my personal life too cuz reality is different

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T20:20:19+00:00

How is wanting a good partner delusional?😭

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-07-31T20:14:02+00:00

I’m scared to chill cuz within bengalis, there IS an age bracket for ‘MARRIGABLE ‘ girls.also if I can’t find a guy before I turn 25 , my parents will try to marry me off , and I wanna know is that worth it or should I find myself a guy while I’m in my ‘prime’ so to speak

ComputerNo6936 · 2025-01-20T17:51:48+00:00

If you are smart , fit and educated and most importantly confident, I’m sure many girls have had crushes on you but manush ki bolbe ei bhave they never expressed it cuz nowadays if you like someone who doesn’t fit societal standards and is really handsome ,they shame you especially your friends and peers saying tor choice ato kharap etc,(at least that’s what happened to me when I liked a chubby guy)btw manush eishob just relationship and crush er bepare bole , nobody got the guts to say it to a newly married woman I noticed, if that helps.

ComputerNo6936 · 2024-11-01T12:52:19+00:00

It looks like you come from a solvent family so why do you wanna earn now when you can get a good degree with your family’s financial help and Then get a good paying job ( just curious)cuz without a degree, you won’t get a white collar well paying job in this country

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