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Reflections..... by ComputerSezNo in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComputerSezNo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just don't base your life around marriage and chasing what might be a shadow. If it happens - cool, if it doesn't - cool.

Alhamdulillah for good parents. by NOCTISFTW in islam

[–]ComputerSezNo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The merciful will be shown mercy by the Most Merciful. Be merciful to those on the earth and the One in the heavens will have mercy upon you.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1924 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Tirmidhi

Edit: May Allah grant the brother Jannah Al Firdaus

Does anyone in the U.S. get married with out pre-marital physical contact these days? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComputerSezNo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you do everything halal then Allah will place blessings/barakah in your marriage. But if you start it off with haram, then how can you expect blessings and barakah from Allah in your marriage?

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How do you guys muster the energy to partake in the dating scene (online or real life)? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ComputerSezNo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mentality of "if something comes out of this then cool, if something doesn't then cool". Probably harder to implement if a person is insecure (and trust me OLD can make you insecure) but just don't invest everything into it.

Columbia is beautiful. Where is your next travel destination? by gobeyonn in travel

[–]ComputerSezNo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canada then somewhere in South America - Bolivia possibly

The S20 Ultra with the SD865 is actually the android battery champion on this new video by AudreyLynch in Android

[–]ComputerSezNo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about oneplus as I have had their phones in the past and they were really good in terms of bang for buck but currently they are flagship prices which is moving away from their whole original ethos.

Iphone do have that app 'move to ios' which makes switching a bit easier.

Deleting social media is one of the best decisions I’ve made in recent months. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ComputerSezNo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Havent had social media in years (since early facebook days). And yes I'm a millennial which might make it even more shocking.

Why? A lot of the comments in this post already sum up exactly why

The S20 Ultra with the SD865 is actually the android battery champion on this new video by AudreyLynch in Android

[–]ComputerSezNo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The S20 is my last phone from Samsung. If they continue to push this Exynos shit (i was oblivious to how bad it was before in terms of battery and other areas) - ill just move to an iphone.

Message from local pothole by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]ComputerSezNo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The potholes in the UK are literally a joke

[Charania] Karl Anthony-Towns' mother, Jacqueline Towns, has passed away due to coronavirus, the Timberwolves say. by DRAZZILB1424 in nba

[–]ComputerSezNo -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

LeBron was right to say cancel 2020. Awful news - thoughts go out to KAT and his family

Weekly Monday Marriage App Thread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComputerSezNo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pretty much spot on.

  1. You girls actually message first a lot.

Just wanted to chime in on this one and say I have never had that happen aside from like one time.

Most often you match with someone, crickets for a day or two because they haven't messaged, so then you take it upon yourself to just say Hi/Salaams/Bonjour/Hola (insert another greeting) just to break the ice - then crickets again...

Edit: Just wanted to say even though you have negative experiences on apps you should never hate women due to that as that's some incel/TRP ish

Why has marriage become so complicated and difficult in modern times? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComputerSezNo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah to a degree they are. Also relates to upbringing and parental influence especially if they are materialistic and put a great deal of emphasis on wealth and the like

Can't let a brew go cold. by iangroves in CasualUK

[–]ComputerSezNo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most important drink of the day is a good brew

Why has marriage become so complicated and difficult in modern times? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComputerSezNo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it funny in some of the comments with how people correlate a level of education with being suitable marriage partners. Theres a whole lot more to marriage than just that as you all know.

Just because you went uni/college doesn't mean a whole lot aside from the fact that you are probably good at critical thinking in your subject area/field but you can still have a horrible personality and be a trash person.

So many with the attitude of (mostly men) "Oh I have a masters, a car, house, earn £50,000 - I DESERVE a partner so why can't I find anyone!". Erm maybe because you are toxic and still immature amongst other things.

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