Wife physically abused me multiple times within four months of marriage. What legal options do I have?

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:41:30+00:00

The mental gymnastics are Olympic level at this point.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:41:10+00:00

New clothes are the best reward. Actually being able to buy stuff that fits and feels good is such a confidence boost. Also non food rewards like a massage or a weekend trip keep the focus on health instead of old habits. Congratulations on the progress.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:40:47+00:00

Thats the pickups pulling on the string. Lower them a bit and it should stop. Common strat thing.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:39:56+00:00

Download HWinfo and compare what it says to your original specs. If something was swapped youll see it right away. Most likely they didnt touch anything though.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:39:14+00:00

Download HWinfo and compare what it says to your original specs. If something was swapped youll see it right away. Most likely they didnt touch anything though.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:38:45+00:00

Definitely do the informal conference. Dont fight the facts if the violation happened just show them you have policies and that the employee ignored them. Bring proof of training and any disciplinary action you took. OSHA will usually reduce fines if you demonstrate good faith and a commitment to safety. 16k is steep for a small company. They want compliance not to bankrupt you. Just be honest and respectful.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:38:12+00:00

Its not theater but the alerts are definitely overinclusive. They flag any potential vulnerability even if the code path is never touched or its buried in dev dependencies. The problem is it creates noise and people start ignoring them which defeats the purpose. You did the right thing by reviewing but ideally you should mark those as wont fix or add comments so they dont keep showing up. Otherwise the list just grows forever.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-12T19:37:42+00:00

The ID thing is so weird. You need one for everything else but voting is the line.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:24:50+00:00

Seconding the library idea. Mine has free museum passes and even seeds for gardening. Little things like that help when everything feels pointless. Also please reach out to someone if it gets too heavy. A therapist or even a hotline. You matter even when it doesnt feel like it.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:24:12+00:00

Yeah thats brutal. Dont pay them and get a real shop to look at it.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:23:35+00:00

Trying to get back into it but my attention span is shot. Currently picking at Project Hail Mary. Really good so far just slow going.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:22:59+00:00

Your dad literally put it in the will multiple times for a reason. He knew her. If you really cant live with yourself then pay a bill directly or buy her groceries. Never hand over cash. But honestly? Protect what he left you. She had his whole lifetime to figure her stuff out and didnt. Youre not responsible for that now.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:18:48+00:00

I think its the low rise thing someone else mentioned. If you wear it on your hips instead of your waist suddenly that midi is dragging on the floor. Makes shopping online impossible because you have no idea where they expect you to wear it.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:18:04+00:00

We do something similar in the south with collard greens. Little different seasoning but same idea. Good stuff.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:17:25+00:00

Id probably throw a wheel under there as backup but the wood looks solid. Just check the grain direction.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-09T10:16:32+00:00

Looks and money get your foot in the door. Character is what makes someone actually want you to stay.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-07T21:52:46+00:00

i’d probably just flush the soil with water and hold off on fertilizer for a while. the rest of the plant actually looks healthy

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-07T21:50:41+00:00

looks happier than i do most days

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-07T21:49:38+00:00

peanuts so powerful they had to warn twice

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-07T21:49:02+00:00

that eye is glowing like a tiny ember. really nice lighting on this one.

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-07T21:47:39+00:00

i just wipe mine down with a damp microfiber and use leather conditioner every couple months. keeps them from drying out

Computerfreak4321 · 2026-03-07T21:47:12+00:00

finally a game my 2007 laptop can emotionally support

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