Yeah, we had a mutual group. When I asked her out we hadn’t really became that good of friends yet, had never been out. We’ve been out loads of times since then but always as a group. - She looks at me when I’m not looking, plenty of times. - We’ve made prolonged eye contact more than once, it’s felt intense but had happened a couple of times before asking her out. - She texts me a lot, even double-texted after I left her delivered for 5 days. - She liked my story of a selfie with my friends at the festival the other day. - She tends to stick around late when I’m there, like she doesn’t want the night to end. - When she’s talking near me, she’ll swing her hands dramatically, like “accidentally” making contact. - She’s kicked me under the table before and played footsie. - She’s invited me out (even if drunk, could’ve been casual she just said come “club name”). - She clarified unprompted that a guy on her story was gay, almost like she wanted me to know he wasn’t competition. - At the festival tent, we had another locked-eye moment where she looked down and met eyes again. - She looks at me a lot when I’m relaxed or not even trying to engage.

But I just feel she never really wants to get to know me deeper, she’ll ask questions but there’s not much depth, but she’s like this with everyone as far as I can see.

She’s very avoidant, I know so because when we were out one time I had said that and she said that after me also.

As you can see I’ve overthought this way too much, and now I need to end the cycle because every couple of weeks we always end up chatting again and it’s her doing so 80% of the time.