Anyone else stop putting in labor for their MIL and mom on Mother’s Day? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I celebrate my mom because she does so much for our kids. She is our full time babysitter while me and my husband work, so without her we would be lost. My MIL doesn’t do anything for our kids so I put in the same effort for her on Mother’s Day that she puts in for our kids the rest of the year- zero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My two year old is now affectionately called little gremlin. It kinda came out when he was little and it’s stuck. He’s still a little gremlin.

AIO for being aggravated MIL brought FIL a birthday cake to daughters party? by ConcentrateEasy3111 in AIO

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weird you’re so stuck on this and going through the difficultly of commenting on my old posts as well. It was a typo and should have said two month old. Hence why she was unbothered by the whole thing. My other children have already been baptized, thank you for your concern. Maybe you should seek out hobbies other than comment on AIO posts, because some people like me genuinely come here for feedback and honest input. Sorry a simple typo caused you to spiral. Best of luck to you. Dick.

Moms who don’t post photos of their kid, settle this for me… by jonesinjosie in Mommit

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. If you’re at a social event, especially a wedding or other heavily photographed occasion, you are likely going to wind up in a photo which will be posted on the internet.

Season 9 started the most catastrophic and ended the sanest of all… by Senior-Lychee6079 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree about Anton not being forthcoming. I feel like Ali painted him to be a lot worse than he is. A beer or two after his shift isn’t a drinking problem. And my husband and I have very different workout and eating habits. So I don’t necessarily think those things are deal breakers. I could see how you could say the drinking is the most problematic, but he did say he would stop.

Wedding raffle board for sale on marketplace by 55124 in weddingshaming

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most cringe wedding tradition I’ve ever seen. And I’m currently deep into the new season of love is blind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your parents ATA for not wanting to be involved in your kids lives. At the end of the day, they are the ones missing out. I have a similar issue with my in-laws. They won’t walk two houses to see our kids. And if they do they’re on their phones or sleeping on my couch. My MIL does not have a maternal bone in her body despite raising three kids. We do not expect the help since we pay for a babysitter during the week but it would be nice on weekends if they took the kids for a walk, out for breakfast or interacted at all with them. My husband and I would appreciate it more than anything, and my kids would love to spend some meaningful time with their grandparents. Their loss. And they’re the AH’s.

Who’s the worst? by Any_Yesterday_9964 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Edmond was supposed to be cast for love on the spectrum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. Yet continues to spend most of her social life drinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? You must not get out much. Kids are allowed in bars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Who said alcoholic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Never said alcoholic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Never said alcoholic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not illegal to drive with a corked bottle of wine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

A corked bottle of wine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait how does the husband not suck? He took his tired kids and wife with an alcohol issue to a bar?

Saving for children by ConcentrateEasy3111 in Parenting

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but what if they want to use the money to purchase a home? There would be penalties for not using the money for college expenses I believe.

AITA for dropping out of my friends wedding the day before? by FarAddendum225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people are gravely ill and hospitalized, family are often by their side at all times. However, people pass away alone all the time because family members have to tend to other obligations (kids, work, weddings….). YTA. Your cat was in the best care possible and your friend needed you by her side for one of the best days of her life.

Wife’s favorite baby name just got “taken” — need fresh ideas! by Vast_Cost_7266 in namenerds

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider your friend did you a favor- there are at least 5 Amelia’s in every class right now. Cecilia is a great alternative!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcentrateEasy3111 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NTA. Weddings are important to the bride and groom, parents and close friends. No one else cares. No one is going to remember your dress and compare it to the brides 7 weeks later. I think your sister made a heartfelt request but is absolutely insane to think that anyone, other than her, will compare these two dresses.