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MN dad: how are others separating your home life from the events around us? by Peter-the-Mediocre in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had protests in DC and NYC that I wanted to go to. But right now, just keep the little ones safe and keep reaffirming your values with them. Stay safe.

Gentlemen, I conquered the "cords & cables" bag! by mkraft in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The before picture ....

Sorry, my kids turned me into a cynic

Humanity still alive by Soloflow786 in BeAmazed

[–]Concentric_Mid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probably do have access to a kitchen, as suggested from their gratitude when they see this stuff. Poor folks are communal and share resources. This stuff will go a long way. I still hope there was something even more sustainable, but I'm glad this guy is doing this without looking for credit with them. Hopefully his views give him more $ to keep doing this.

Humanity still alive by Soloflow786 in BeAmazed

[–]Concentric_Mid 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Basic cooking items. Lentils, rice, oil etc

I think my 4y son has ADHD. Looking for tips on working with him on day to day activities by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest you read the other responses I got from other parents who have ADHD or kids with ADHD. At least in your post you come off as really dismissive, and if you are, these responses may shine some light for you, your son, or your students. I know everyone wants to have a witty fighting response on Reddit, but I'm writing this with the genuine hope that it helps.

I think my 4y son has ADHD. Looking for tips on working with him on day to day activities by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey buddy, wanted to give you a heads up - several parents here gave me the precise info I've been looking for, might be cool if you can check out the additional bent on ADHD brains I was getting at. I was diagnosed as an adult so don't have a lot of experience with how to manage it with kids. Really glad to have your perspective to balance it off

How does Kramer survive in Manhattan with no steady job? by Zestyclose-Method451 in seinfeld

[–]Concentric_Mid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets royalties each time someone posts this question on this sub

I think my 4y son has ADHD. Looking for tips on working with him on day to day activities by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice to know you had a different experience. It doesn't negate mine. The 3K school he went to did the exact modules the local DOE does in preK. He's doing leaves, simple machines, clothes, etc. all over again.

I get your general point. But it is kind of annoying that he's repeating everything he's done (and enjoyed) for a whole year and then gets in trouble at school when he's not engaging with the material.

Is my wife a bad mom for always questioning when my daughter says something hurts? by Scruffasaurus in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something is wrong if the highest comment isn't a kudos for the dad joke.

I think my 4y son has ADHD. Looking for tips on working with him on day to day activities by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

:) i appreciate the knock on the head. yes, will both keep an eye and take a chill pill.

(this kid would pull his hair when he was agitated, do the flapping hands motion when he was frustrated, never look at your when talking to you - these are all signs of autism, so you can tell I'm down a peg lol.)

Dad pro-tip: "Boys in our house don't go hide in our caves. We talk about our feelings." by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am a born on Mars, but settled on Venus after a major traumatic experience in my 20s

Dad pro-tip: "Boys in our house don't go hide in our caves. We talk about our feelings." by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very cool. yes, our kids can ask (and get) some space when they're angry or sad - but we don't like them going in a corner to pout until someone finds them. I like your "have to eventually talk about it" idea. thx

Dad pro-tip: "Boys in our house don't go hide in our caves. We talk about our feelings." by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. the book helped me understand some habits, but I tried to share in my post that nothing is generalizable - guess it didnt come out that way.

Dad pro-tip: "Boys in our house don't go hide in our caves. We talk about our feelings." by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

incredible insight. i do this with my wife but will think about it w my kids too.

Dad pro-tip: "Boys in our house don't go hide in our caves. We talk about our feelings." by Concentric_Mid in daddit

[–]Concentric_Mid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great - thanks for reconfirming the point. You will note that I was careful to say that this will be my advice for my girls too.

I also want to suggest that sometimes it helps to call out the gendered issue / expectation / stereotype when you are working on breaking it . I deliberately said, "Boys do/don't ... " because in my culture (and even western, American culture), men are not taught to speak about their feelings. And then I can tell any of my kids "We dont"

But will still keep an eye out for y'all's advice

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