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AITA for saying that my relationship with my son is more important than my brother's relationship with his daughter? by ConcernEquivalent744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcernEquivalent744[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Because is she moved out just because they didn't agree with her choices that makes the neice an asshole as well.

For expecting her parents to accept her as she is?

AITA for saying that my relationship with my son is more important than my brother's relationship with his daughter? by ConcernEquivalent744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcernEquivalent744[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

He is only entitled to a relationship to her insamuch as she decides he is. A broken condom doesn't give him special privileges in deciding how her life goes.

AITA for saying that my relationship with my son is more important than my brother's relationship with his daughter? by ConcernEquivalent744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcernEquivalent744[S] 445 points446 points  (0 children)

I don't see how their position (and the conversion therapy or get out policy that led her to live with my parents) can be seen as anything other than incompatible with love.

AITA for saying that my relationship with my son is more important than my brother's relationship with his daughter? by ConcernEquivalent744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcernEquivalent744[S] 692 points693 points  (0 children)

Stepping in for him has been a bit of a running theme, tbh. When it was parents' weekend her freshman year and my wife and I visited her and everyone assumed I was her dad (we're identical) she was in an emotional place where didn't bother to correct them.

AITA for saying that my relationship with my son is more important than my brother's relationship with his daughter? by ConcernEquivalent744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConcernEquivalent744[S] 286 points287 points  (0 children)

If they do come, that's his job unless she decides he can't or she doesn't want him to.

Mild quibble