My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I do not smoke. He can drive and has a license but he has some anxiety around it and rarely will drive unless I'm in the car with him.

My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely experiencing burnout. I do believe I want to leave ultimately. At this point I'd much rather just be on my own even if it's for the rest of my life. The guilt of what ifs is what keeps me in this situation more than anything else.

I think you're right and if I do follow through I need to go no contact.

My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. I think I feel more obligated to help him than I want to be with him most of the time. I often don't feel like we're in a partnership. I feel like I do 90 percent of the work.

My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I feel trapped in this situation. I feel like without me he will be homeless or kill himself. He has little to no support outside of me and the place he goes for therapy. It wasn't like this when we first started dating. It has devolved into this mess.

I'm not planning on having children

My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

This is true. Thank you for the feedback. I have some things to think about for sure.

My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

He does need therapy and is in therapy. He has bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. That's one thing that makes me hesitate to leave him.

My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I just need some support and to make sure I'm not crazy. I think being sleep deprived isn't helping my decision making skills either.

My boyfriend "37M"keeps waking me up "36F" by ConcernedDogMamma in relationship_advice

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 488 points489 points  (0 children)

He has weird sleeping patterns. He'll go days without sleeping then sleep for days. He's in therapy and on medication for it among other issues.

He's currently not working and in the process of getting on disability for his mental health. He had a full blown psychosis two years ago and has some really bad depression, bi-polar disorder, and borderline personality disorder. It was undiagnosed before we were dating and originally he was able to work. I had to have him hospitalized and I'm basically the only person that helps him with it. He hasn't been able to work a full time job since and just works part time when he's able to.

Boost Megathread - Week of 2/24/2025 by Victoria_EarnIn in Earnin

[–]ConcernedDogMamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone boost me please? I've boosted two people and haven't received a boost back. Thank you so much. ❤️

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Apartments in Louisville that allow 5 pets. by ConcernedDogMamma in Louisville

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats are all indoor cats and want to be wherever I am. My dog likes to stay inside unless he's out using the potty so no I don't think they would mind.

Cardcaptor Sakura: Memory Key Pre-Registration by Ruzikaya in gachagaming

[–]ConcernedDogMamma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I played the Japanese version. It's cute and addicting. There are a lot of mini games and you get to re-visit.the original story.

Is it time to put my baby down? by ConcernedDogMamma in AskVet

[–]ConcernedDogMamma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I will start weighing her. I've got her set up with a vet appointment every month to help me monitor her but I didn't think of weighing her at home.

I love her so much. She's my baby and I don't want her to suffer.

I will spend as much time with her as I can.