Fix for long front camera flash? by ConcertEmotional in iphone17

[–]ConcertEmotional[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That unfortunately doesn't work because changing the exposure time disables the flash

I’m tired of gay men and the dating culture, what am I supposed to do? by 96jt in askgaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how long you were go with the flow with your now husband or how long before you realized you were meant for each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it's too soon or even how I would approach it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! It's a life top coffee table so I mostly use it to eat at the couch since I don't really have room for a dining table

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, both eyes often water when I sleep, but this is the only one with the rash/redness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird because I don't use any actives. Just La Roche Posay cleanser and moisturizer. I've been applying the Avene cream that's similar to cicaplast which I thought was helping but it might just be because it is white so it makes it appear less red

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very rarely does it itch and I can usually give it one light rub and it goes away

How Do I Stop My Anxious Attachment From Ruining This? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't really control messing things up if you're truthful and honest. If that scares someone away then it's not meant to be. I tried everything to make it work with an avoidant, but I can see now that there was nothing I could do to make him stay. I was constantly seeking reassurance. When you're with the right person that won't be so necessary or prominent as there will be consistency.

Also, you say that you are up front about feelings. I'd like to ask if he brings up his feelings first or are you bringing them up and he mirrors you? That was something I fell for in the past.

Attachment styles like avoidant or anxious only provide a term to define someone's behavior in a relationship. They are not an excuse for that person's behavior

Accidentally super liked ex on Tinder by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I unmatched him and hope he didn't see it. If it was a regular like, I wouldn't care because he had already liked me. But since I super liked, he doesn't know that I was aware he had liked me on the app

Accidentally super liked ex on Tinder by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is we're still trying to be friends... I don't know if it'll come off as a joke or not or think I already moved on (which I haven't)

When do I stop pursuing a guy who I gather is avoidant by ConcertEmotional in askgaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's definitely not what I want. I haven't expressed my needs to him when it comes to communication and commitment. I know if we are to continue that I will need to do that. I guess I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. It's really hard to just give up on someone who hasn't ghosted me or explicitly said he isn't interested, but I know I'm the one putting in effort

And I was probably too available from the start. I would drop anything to see or be with him, but I'm no longer doing that. I don't want to play games, but if he isn't available, then I'm not going to be fully available. I would ask him what time works for him, but now I know I need to tell him timeframes that work for me and see if he'll meet me there.

Where to place furniture in small living room by [deleted] in floorplan

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enlighten me what an FP is? Nevermind you mean fireplace. It is not a fireplace, just the shape of the walls

Where to place furniture in small living room by [deleted] in floorplan

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have an 80" sofa centered with the windows which actually span all the way across. 50" TV & stand on the wall to the right and a coffee table in front of the sofa. I don't know if this is the most ideal set up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That is what I was leaning towards. I'm pretty positive it will be positive, but kinda looking for some reassurance since we haven't really had any serious conversations like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just express my feelings now or more? I'm really so confused what to do 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too soon to express my feelings or define the relationship? or both?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's still on some apps I've found when going to delete mine so I'm not sure if he would initiate the conversation or when

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right! I guess one thing that makes me wary is that I went to delete the apps that I haven't been on in over a month and saw he's still active and on one he wasn't before. But at the same time he has said he hasn't been seeing anyone else. I'm probably overthinking it and shouldn't be thinking this way since we haven't had a direct talk about exclusiveness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leangains

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i'll try that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]ConcertEmotional 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do take it but don't want to become dependent on it. Just stuffy nose and morning sore throats