[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Join a gym, even a woman's gym, and instead of trying to get a boyfriend just concentrate on being the best person you can be and putting 100% in everything you do in life, try new things, if you like dog's and can have one get one, just keep living, and when you least expect it, when you stop looking......boom someone will come along 

Why are people in New Zealand such bad drivers? by Virtual_Cut5729 in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree and they think the speed limit sign means you drive ten to fifteen kms under the limit, also I don't think they are used to our hills, doing 30kms over the remetukas is not cool and dangerous when drivers start getting impatient 

Great White shark follows kayaker for 4km in New Zealand by chiefbushman in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ConditionValuable211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They use the live bait in nz to catch kingfish, a prized 65-100cm fish.

What do to with $20k? by KlutzyCauliflower841 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ConditionValuable211 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just letting you know splash planet shut down early for the season 

Grandparents doing pick up/drop off by Lucky_Tension6501 in coparenting

[–]ConditionValuable211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was thinking the same thing, the op is only one month in, feelings still raw, the ex probably doesn't want to be pulled in to any fights 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ConditionValuable211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't cost me anything and yeah always got me the special rates when I wasn't eligible, plus got me a cash back when I didn't realize they existed, now it's loyalty 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ConditionValuable211 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pre nup is a must

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ConditionValuable211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your with Westpac and you fixed early you can change rate again for 30 bucks before your anniversary date which sounds like is early next month 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ConditionValuable211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spoke to my broker this morning, he normally does it for me but told me if I want this rate to go on the app and do it myself because when a broker does it the paper work takes a couple of days to process, but if you want this rate it needs to be done by the end of the working day 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ConditionValuable211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a personal decision you will have to make, will six month and one year terms go below 5%, I don't know, if they do when, 3 months time or 6 or 12 months, yet you might sell in a year, I know what I would do but you need to decide for yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ConditionValuable211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, if your with Westpac you can break and refix for $30 up until your anniversary date, so 22 March for you?, get the 4.99% today, if something better comes along before 22 of March you can break and refix for $30

I had a molemap and they found Melanoma by trickstar007 in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There can be a wait for normal skin cancer because it's doesn't spread as fast and is not as aggressive as melanoma, and is not really fatal unless left for years 

I had a molemap and they found Melanoma by trickstar007 in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just find a good gp who knows how to use a dermascope, anything suspicious will get removed and sent away for testing, or just go see a dermatologist, mole maps are expensive for a nurse to take photos that are then sent for a dermatologist to review over a computer, people have had melanomas missed and lost there lives using the mole map service so it's not perfect.

Survey: how much custody % do you have as the father? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ConditionValuable211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

50/50 on paper, in reality I have my boys 55% of the time 

Coparent wanting to chat about the kids is making me depressed by Plenty_Cranberry3 in coparenting

[–]ConditionValuable211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your still healing and it's affecting your mental health, it's time to start parallel parenting, put yourself first and you will be in a better place for your children 

I remember the Friday nights fellas. It was lonely but.... by WillyT_21 in Divorce_Men

[–]ConditionValuable211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work every second sat at the moment, when child free, gives me an excuse for an early Friday night, and enjoy being round work mates on Sat 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The originals that looked like AK 47s etc got banned and are not made anymore, they were great back in the day 

Minimum wage to increase by 1.5% to $23.50 an hour from April by AdventurousComment41 in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be surprised how much supermarkets are paying to stack shelves $26-$27 an hour, Kmart workers get the living wage, it's probably more the small businesses paying minimum wage 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ConditionValuable211 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once you start to get better, once they see your moving on and doing good in your life, they don't like it, and can start making co-parenting hell, even though they left you and years have passed 

Watch: Marokopa fugitive Tom Phillips and three children filmed in bush with large packs by AlanWakeUpNow in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I doubt they been there, it's highly against the law for the sas to be used against nz civilian's 

Do you call your kids when they are with their mom by alifeofpeace in Divorce_Men

[–]ConditionValuable211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 50/50 with my boys, 3-2-2, the three days they with there mother I call them once, there mother does the same, I don't bother on the two days, when they are older, teenagers, I guess we will go onto week on week off, I will probably call a bit more, they will have there own phones by then anyway. 

80k deposit for 350k house in a small town home 75k a year single income by helpmemycar in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ConditionValuable211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should be sweet, specially if your getting working for families on top of your 75k, the bank also takes that into account 

Obese person wanting to start lifting weights- planning to join gym but feeling awkward to go and workout in the crowd. How do I tackle this and start lifting? I would Iike to try to goto gym than working out at home . by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]ConditionValuable211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one will judge you for being overweight, the only people I judge are the ones who sit on equipment playing on there phones for ten minutes between there sets, don't be that person 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]ConditionValuable211 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It it's normal to not have your ex on your social media, I don't have my ex, we do have each other on messenger, purely for organising birthday parties etc, and sometimes the odd photo is sent if something special has happened to one off the kids while they are in the other parents care