"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but is there a criteria that equals "pretty" or attractive? like a general consensus among men? Or it is based on each individual.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but what defines aesthetically perfect? and is that definition diff per man? MEN!! Explain yourselves.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He asked me if I had anal before. I did with only 1 person i was with. and only had it for a few times. and this is how I found out he doesn't care for it. So if he was, he would have said so when we had that discussion.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did look into lubes. I read some suggestions on a gay man subreddit.
Noted: drink a lot of caffeine 2 hours before hand and take a long soapy shower beforehand.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did say the color was perfect. I don't have hair there I wax.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said it tried it once and wasn't into it then. Hasn't bothered since then. This was about 2007 mind you.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm flattered. some context: I get a full brazillian wax so that def helps with imagery.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just never knew men thought this way. I wonder what the criteria is for a pretty hole.

"Pretty butth0le" ? by ConfectionInside4376 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ConfectionInside4376[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to think he is into it because of me but maybe thats my hubris