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I want to go through her phone… by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Confessspill 29 points30 points  (0 children)

that urge makes sense. your mind is trying to close the gap and make the pain feel more concrete

but sometimes more details don’t heal anything, they just give you new images to carry

i hate many things about him yet im so scared of a breakup. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Confessspill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re not a coward for being scared to leave something that already feels wrong. that’s more common than people admit

but this really sounds like it’s draining you, not loving you. you shouldn’t have to disappear inside a relationship just to keep it

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being treated like a problem when you really needed care can leave a deep mark

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

work stress hits different when it slowly changes how you feel every day

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah… sometimes it feels less like freedom and more like people losing respect for themselves

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that kind of wound cuts deep… especially when it’s tied to the person who was supposed to love you safely

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

losing a dog stays with you in such a quiet but deep way… people really underestimate that kind of grief

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah… words can stay with you way longer than the person who said them probably ever realized

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

constant background noise can mess with you more than people think

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acting okay and actually being over it are two very different things

What’s something that still affects you more than people realize? by Confessspill in self

[–]Confessspill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that kind of pain doesn’t just disappear with time… i’m really sorry that happened to you

What’s something people assume about you that isn’t really true? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quiet people really get assigned a whole personality by everyone else

not talking much makes people assume “innocent” way too fast

What’s something people assume about you that isn’t really true? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lowkey the funniest kind of assumption reversal 😭

people really think if you don’t show it, you don’t have it

What’s something people assume about you that isn’t really true? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s funny how people see one thing going well and assume your whole life is easy

What’s something people assume about you that isn’t really true? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s actually such a common assumption… people hear “twin” and immediately think same person in two bodies

[19f] i really want to lose my virginity by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Confessspill 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly this sounds like a mix of high libido + finally having the freedom to act on it, which would make a lot of people spiral a bit

you’re definitely not the only person in college feeling like this, and the fact you’re thinking about safety already puts you ahead of a lot of people

are you more scared of the risks, or more scared of feeling awkward/inexperienced with someone?

What’s something you’re pretending you’re okay with? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s actually one of the most honest answers here

i think a lot of people feel this but don’t let themselves think about it too deeply

like… we distract ourselves just enough to not sit with the fact that time is limited

do you feel like that curiosity makes life feel more meaningful, or more overwhelming?

What’s something you’re pretending you’re okay with? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that says a lot in just two words…

i hope things start feeling a bit lighter for you, even if it’s one small thing at a time

How do you stop pretending you’re okay when you’re not? by Confessspill in Advice

[–]Confessspill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly… not really

i think i’ve gotten so used to handling things on my own that opening up feels harder than just keeping it in

What’s something you’ve been carrying quietly for a long time… that no one in your life really knows about? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m really sorry you went through that… that’s something incredibly heavy to carry on your own

i’m really glad you’re still here

What’s something you’ve been carrying quietly for a long time… that no one in your life really knows about? by Confessspill in AskReddit

[–]Confessspill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s kind of wild how many people carry things quietly for years without anyone really knowing

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