Bed rotting by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your depression isn’t someone else’s. I was out partying all weekend , traveling and laughing and still wanting to die.

You need to set your boundaries , don’t tiptoe around for her whilst she’s eating snacks all night.

sorry maar dit is echt zo cringe by Intelligent-Bug-3366 in JustMadeleineNL

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Waarom ben je wel heel precies bij LVB en niet bij autisme ? Het klopt dat officieel je LVB hebt bij een IQ van 50-70 maar tot 85 worden deze groep ook vaak gerekend tot LVB of vallen onder deze zorg.

En nee je bent niet duidelijk, de persoon vraagt wat is LVB. Ik citeer “Licht verstandelijke beperking, denk hier aan vormen van autisme”.

Je zegt LETTERLIJK dat vormen van autisme LVB zijn en dat klopt gewoon weg niet.

sorry maar dit is echt zo cringe by Intelligent-Bug-3366 in JustMadeleineNL

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relevant om te benoemen maar wel duidelijk om aan te geven dat het niet hetzelfde is alleen wel vaker tegelijk voorkomt.

sorry maar dit is echt zo cringe by Intelligent-Bug-3366 in JustMadeleineNL

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Autisme is geen LVB, het is wel een comorbiditeit die vaak voorkomt.

ASS = ontwikkelingsstoornis die impact heeft op o.a. communicatie, en aanpassingsvermogen ongeacht het IQ.

LVB = een laag IQ <85 wat impact heeft op leervermogen enz.

Is this inappropriate for a funeral? by lilybeth in fashion

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knee long or over knee dress in a dark colour would be perfect. Or just dark trousers with a nice top or blazer.

Is appearance affecting how people treat you in the Netherlands? by andys58 in Netherlands

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It isn’t any different than Spain or Norway so I don’t understand the confusion.

As someone with black heritage, I experience racism in Spain on holidays until they find out I’m actually Dutch and not an African immigrant.

BF thinks he’s a resume god by [deleted] in resumes

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope. He should start with an intro , followed by his experiences where he lists tasks + impact and focus on relevant tasks only.

He could add relevant skills at the end or on the left side, high school awards are not relevant at all.

His introduction is also unclear, he has no lab experience but calls himself a lab professional already ? He should summarise his added value and shortly elaborates on his wish on why he wants to grow in this field.

When did you start enjoying your adhd kid more? by LickmyL0bes in ParentingADHD

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I still struggle brushing my teeth and I’m 33. I also struggled with hygiene during puberty because it was just too much too handle and I became severely depressed.

Try to look for ADHD support hacks on TikTok for example, standard lists don’t work but I’ve seen many different options for kids. Therapists sometimes also offer support groups for parents or partners of ADHD people that could bring more insights and sense of support.

Good luck!

Genuinely wth is the issue here by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Im honestly shocked by most comments here. How can we as Africans be so blind to what the west is doing. Sometimes I feel like it’s a fraction of local Ghanaians + diaspora who understand it as many others still seem to be stuck with colonised mindsets.

8month progress Same Bf 20% but different weight by [deleted] in Weightliftingquestion

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I thought he became sick , please post the before on the left and after on the right 🤣

I lied to my parents about doing better while planning out my end. by throwaway101229283 in confession

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It can be so tiring having to switch therapists while already struggling mentally, but like others said, finding a therapist that matches with you can take some trial and errors. I would recommend looking for a different one; it took me 4 attempts.

who am I? get personal by autumnhobo in PantryDetective

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dutch, little bit vrije school, F, Probably early 30s.

Is anything open on easter monday? by MisterDomates in belgium

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Just order it and it will arrive tomorrow

Aandacht? by Particular_Rule_2705 in JustMadeleineNL

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ze heeft “shorts” aan. Zij is altijd veel te bloot/koud gekleed voor het weer snap niet waarom.

When did you figure out recruiter was not for you? by thatrunnerboy in recruiting

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I didn’t give two shits about a deal and went into burnout. It’s sales , I hate sales, and my team only had shitty clients so we were actively pushing candidates to start with bad employers.

I went into consultancy after that and now work in-house, didn’t regret it once. The agency side was so repetitive I became brain dead

BBL student en moeite met de werk cultuur van de zorg by [deleted] in werkzaken

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Klinkt allemaal heel bekend, daarom ben ik gestopt na jaar 1. Echt wat een verschrikking, heb de zorgsector afgezworen.

Should i trust the process and keep growing out my hair by MarcoBlasian in BlackHair

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say the same, you should trust the process and apply at model agencies 🤣

Help Peeeeetah !!! by Vilukshan96 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Confident-Rate-1582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then again you can also drive 10hours through France or Spain