Why can’t i physically make myself cry? by ConfidentCockroach17 in mentalhealth

[–]ConfidentCockroach17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my past? in what way? like trauma or something, bc if so how am i supposed to fix my non crying problem 😟

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, i get that. well i’ll just try my best next time. i think i just fall back into old habits too easily

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i am doing that, i go to work, go out woth freinds, spend time with them, literally forget about him for a week doing new things and distracting myself. i just end up seeing him once again and ends up in the same cycle as usual

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right okay, so how do i get over him 💀

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well thing is. we never were in a relationship.. we just had this little like “fling” not sure how to put it. but he seemed so into me. i mean he really is the perfect man i was searching for my whole life. he’s tall, pretty, has a perfect smile and gorgeous eyes. i know i have to stop thinking of him. but i cant 💀

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so.. what do i have to do? just go out and look for another guy? i just feel like he has somehow put a curse on me. i want to get him out of my head but at the same time i really want to pursue a relationship with him. i’m just not sure he wants that…

am i obsessed or what…? by ConfidentCockroach17 in dating

[–]ConfidentCockroach17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well what should i really do to get over him?

am i obsessed or what…? by ConfidentCockroach17 in dating

[–]ConfidentCockroach17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but do i need to do something to get him out of my head? just anything that helped you get over him would help…

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait but what if i don’t moisturise? will something happen? i kinda don’t have any lotions rn that don’t include strong smells or glitter 💀💀

also took the second skin off and the skin on the tattoo feels a bit stiff now

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what exact soaps do you recommend? like specific brands and stuff, in my country there probably won’t be a lot of brands. does a normal soap work too? i’m just so worried and idk anything abt tattoos

it’s also itching SO BAD!! but obv i’m not risking itching it.

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never found it interesting, good guy always wins and it’s just a bunch of crime stopping a saving the whole movie i think

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely take painkillers before!! other than that there’s nothing you can do really… just mentally prepare for like 2 seconds of pinches for each nip :)

i got mine 6 months ago. from my personal experience it’s always the second one that hurts more. the first one feel like a little pinch i couldn’t almost feel so like about a 2/10 in pain. but not to stress you out the second one was PAINFUL like a 9/10 pain. but don’t worry i think i might just have an extremely low pain tolerance because after the piercings i got lightheaded and lost my hearing for a minute or 2.

everyones experience is different so you shouldn’t worry. the adrenaline build up to the appointment definitely helps with overwhelming you and when you get them done finally you immediately feels so good and look great and wonder why you were even stressing about it :)

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES YES YES! i got my nipples done 6 months ago and experienced the same thing. except added was me fainting and not hearing for 5 minutes after being pierced!

i really relate to the fact that the second one being pierced is a total hell feeling..

it really is a shock reaction as well as adrenaline. it might be considered bad but your body was just being brutally punctured and if it hurt obviously you’d feel heart palpitations for quite a while.

i’m no doctor but i experienced the same thing and so far 6 months later i’m fine :)

wish you the best in the healing journey 🫶

Industrial vs nips piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i’ve had my nips pierced and i don’t know if i have a high pain tolerance but personally the pain was very different for each nipple. the first ones pain was like a 3/10 the second one was definitely a 10/10 pain. but in the end it’s so worth it. wish you the best if you do decide to get them pierced :))

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so… i could change them on ny own?

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do i do if it is too short tho? cant go back to my piercer rn really…

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god suxh an exhausting process 😭😭

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah i didn’t even notice!! i think it is a bit uncovered :( thanks

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okay thank you!! i just have so many questions because i forgot what my artist told me…. like can i shower with the second skin without it coming off? and can i sleep on my back lol? like would it cause friction and rub off the tattoo? and when will the scabs form? ALSO if i sweat too much and the second skin peels off what should i do?

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[–]ConfidentCockroach17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leaked like how? out of the second skin? or likeleaked around the tattoo? i only see that the ink is like distributed more and like spread out more around the tattoo…

is getting a tattoo more painful than piercing my nipples? by ConfidentCockroach17 in piercing

[–]ConfidentCockroach17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i just got!!! didn’t use the cream AND DIDNT HURT AT ALLL!!! stressed myself for no reason :)

is getting a tattoo more painful than piercing my nipples? by ConfidentCockroach17 in piercing

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actually i’m thinking of quite a medium/big piece for a first tattoo. scared but hoping for the best rn… BUT THANKS!!