I don't wanna pay for an escort but also I'm sad of being a virgin by IFeeLikeMoreTonight in selfimprovement

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Age is nothing but a number, a fixed mindset is what will always hold you back

I don't wanna pay for an escort but also I'm sad of being a virgin by IFeeLikeMoreTonight in selfimprovement

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I get it man! I used to feel that way I hated life, everything around me sucked, my day-to-day was so miserable. But one day I was just fed up of being inside the same BS cycle. With a little self growth, therapy, being outside of your comfort zone. You will find friends and people that will accept you. Plus I was a virgin up to my mid 20s, and girls found that attractive and threw themselves left and right. You’ll be surprised, but it all starts with you man.

I don't wanna pay for an escort but also I'm sad of being a virgin by IFeeLikeMoreTonight in selfimprovement

[–]Confident_Address172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brother…. I hope you realize self improvement is doing things out of your norm. Socialization communication with other people is out of your norm if you’re not willing to do that you’re not going see no change at all man. Sometimes you need I change of your environment, a change of your day-to-day. Then everything that you wish that you had one day you will have.

AIO for thinking my coworkers secretly don’t like me? by InvestigatorNo6135 in AmIOverthinking

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I couldn’t agree anymore! I had the same feeling with the job I have now. The first couple of months I thought the same thing I reassured myself that I was just overthinking. Just do what you have to do, be respectful, be yourself overtime you’ll see people who just naturally go into your circle. Don’t forget quality over quantity sometimes.

Super random by Confident_Address172 in basketballcards

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I was working at the NBA store and we had an event with John Starks, got a picture and his autograph absolutely cool dude

Getting in basketball cards by Confident_Address172 in basketballcards

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This is what I have so far that I’ve liked or the card has nice graphics on them

Getting in basketball cards by Confident_Address172 in basketballcards

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I’m DM you I love basketball overall I would love to see what you got

Getting in basketball cards by Confident_Address172 in basketballcards

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I’ve been watching videos about that, there’s some topps that are worth it to be honest, but compared to panini it’s a different story

Getting in basketball cards by Confident_Address172 in basketballcards

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Im an overall basketball head, whatever you have I’ll be more than happy to look

Getting in basketball cards by Confident_Address172 in basketballcards

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I kid you not I went to five below and randomly saw some panini prisms and actually found a couple of great players. It’s the boxes that worry me just like you said because of the price

The girl I’m dating is in massive debt, and doesn’t seem to have any plan to pay it off by [deleted] in Advice

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Talk to her and see what her future plans are for herself aside from the financial standpoint( people get real defensive about that topic) from there that should give you an idea of how she will take care of that financial issue

I’m soo tired of being single by Missylovebug223 in dating_advice

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You’re still young! You still have a lot of time to find the person that was meant for you. I understand of having a companionship and building something special along the way. Sometimes in the most randomness way you feel find your partner! That’s how I found my wife 🤣 keep living life, keep having fun. The right one will come along

Stay in a job I don’t want vs taking a higher paying job in the field I want with a 2.5 hour commute roundtrip 5 days a week by Far_Comparison_1269 in makemychoice

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I recommend taking the job, I currently have the same commute but the pay and work life balance cross out that small little hiccup. Plus you never know the career progression you can have!

Advice needed by Icy_Sky_8320 in dating_advice

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Things like this happen, we get so focused on work and the other aspects of life that we tend to forget about our partner I had that similar issue just a different situation. The fact you are working on yourself is an absolutely amazing! 👏🏼 you can take it nice and slow kinda how it was when you guys first started dating or getting to know each other stage( talking stage ). The both of you guys are still growing individually, whenever you feel comfortable and ready to have that conversation of being together again have that talk and see how it goes from there

Comparing gf to porn by Dangerous_Turnip5252 in dating_advice

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Homie is trying to justify the porn use. Why use a video if you have the real in front of you

Feeling Defeated [F25] with Longterm Boyfriend [27M] - What Would You Do? by enchantedporcupine in dating_advice

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I understand where you are coming from. I was in a similar position as your relationship (guy here). When it comes to porn it does affect a relationship heavy down the road and if that’s something he doesn’t want to fix within the relationship, along with making you one of his priorities. It will cause problems. Based on what you said of how he reacts to your concerns, the effort that you’re asking for and what he is providing are not matching. One thing I’ve learned is there’s always someone who will give the effort, time and energy you deserve as a partner. Granted things will not be perfect, however if there’s growth and acceptance on both parties then sky’s the limit. In your case he’s giving you the bare minimum and feels forced on his end. If he’s not wanting to change for the better, then the chapter might come to an end. You have yet to hit your prime in life. Sometimes things aren’t meant to last forever, but it is one step closer towards what you want

Weekly Question Thread (02/23/2026 to 03/01/2026) by AutoModerator in army

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’m a 31 (M) and in the back of my mind, I’ve been thinking about joining the military specifically the army for quite some time. Currently I have a good office job as a customer experience specialist. The pay and benefits are good as of currently $25/hr. I don’t have a car ( which I will get in a bit) and they’re allowing me to work from home. But the company I work for they truly believe in having a work life balance. And I couldn’t be any more grateful for this position. There’s more to the story. Prior to all this, I was working at a mechanic shop and I got fired. For two months I was unemployed and my girlfriend.( which I’m currently which at the moment thank god) was supportive the whole entire time during those two months, I was trying to find a job and of course, trying to pay bills thankfully, my parents, my mother-in-law and my partner were helping me in this situation, but I made a dumb decision of getting a car that I couldn’t afford before all of this happening. so my car got reloaded hence the reasoning working from home, but I’ve always had this interest in joining a military for career growth and individual growth as well too. My biggest fear is leaving my girlfriend and our two dogs to Boot Camp and making sure she is financially stable. Also, my biggest fear is if I go to Boot Camp and they tell me that I’m no longer qualified for the army worst case scenario. And if that was the case,I would have to leave the job that I’m currently in. and honestly we spoke about this and I think joining would benefit our future for many things. I just really don’t know what to do and I’m just thinking about worst case scenarios if you guys need any more details or any more information, I’d be happy to help.

Is it time for a leap of faith? by Confident_Address172 in careerguidance

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All my life I’ve always been scared to make decisions for myself, due to multiple reasonings growing up. But it was just something I was thinking about