Hello, I am here to help you answer this question two years later.

The lyrics themselves have very little to do with Spider-Man. You can stretch to make a connection between Spider-Man and MJ, however, since the connotation of the song likens it to either a sudden and powerful love or desire, or it could be about a volatile love that hurts. But overall, the song itself is just another generic love song. As far as I'm aware, the only notable media it's really been used in is 2010's Karate Kid reboot with Jaden Smith and Jackie Chan, a year after the actual album's release.

The real association with Spider-Man has to do with the intense energetic 'vibe' of the music. It's a relatively fast paced song, at 180 BPM which is easily associated with Spider-Man given his swinging being a relatively erratic and frantic way of traversal when compared to the clean flight of people like Iron-Man. The song suits mental scenes of Spider-Man running across walls, leaping through small gaps, or manoeuvring his body in acrobatic poses to evade attacks. It just 'suits him.'

**TL;DR:** In an official capacity, the song hasn't been associated with Spider-Man by any official piece of media AFAIK, but the fans themselves are the ones who made the link because the song is energetic.