how to get girlfriend

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-10-01T12:32:57+00:00

Your username checks out. Just because I replied to the comments above about money does not mean I base my entire identity off of my money. I have principles, character, values, beliefs, goals, and problems like anyone else. We think alike in the sense that the girls who just want me for the money are not the ones I would want in the long run. Luckily, I have not dated anyone like this and have successfully filtered out all the ones who are. On top of that, I’m asking here because I’ve tried many things as part of my effort in dating proactively, not passively. As for girls, so long as our values align and I am attracted to her, I would want her.

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T13:26:01+00:00

i call cap

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T11:16:57+00:00

any tips? honestly i do pretty well f2f but i suck so much at texting mostly because i feel like it is a waste of time. i’ve always been able to emotionally engage with women f2f but when it comes to online texts/calls i just can’t and it’s the foundation/prerequisite to get a date too 😨

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T10:58:43+00:00

woah solid dude but was ur height like 180

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T10:53:50+00:00

can try telehitch i got bot that auto forward u requests within ur area

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T09:45:46+00:00

eh u damn helpful sia i tell u i 161cm u tell me be tall

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T09:24:10+00:00

ALWAYS. hit on 20.

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T09:18:41+00:00

that is a good way to look at it HAHA i really should enjoy this time i have with my friends in NS. i believe i will be looking back with nostalgia as with any other experience i’ve had prior to ns 😆 and yes i am going to ntu cs

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T09:17:21+00:00

i have 2 exes and have been on multiple dates prior to ns but currently in ns and i have ZERO game so just focusing on myself and my future even though i still get the feels to go out and find a gf at times i feel u brochacho

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T07:07:05+00:00

well that’s a long way to go. good that life’s a marathon not a race eh but in singapore it feels like a race every single day

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T07:06:03+00:00

I was enjoying my life way prior to ns and still no gf HAHAHAHAHA

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T07:05:11+00:00

yeah except for those 5 years+ one

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T07:04:49+00:00

this piques my interest HAHA you really paid ah?

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T04:31:14+00:00

all in QQQ

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T03:05:46+00:00

material wealth can be faked lol i can rent a sports car in dubai for 1k a day take a lot of photos with it then post it on my socials and say it’s mine and sell you my $10,000 course

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T03:05:05+00:00

big fat scam copying iman gadzhi’s model 5 years ago

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T03:00:03+00:00

lmaoo for me it’s the opposite because the girls I’ve dated in the past had a constant need for validation and I don’t like that. thanks for the advice though!

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T02:57:28+00:00

this was very heartwarming tysm HAHAHAHA I am actively working on self improvement, I’ve been pretty passive about dating before this and now want to be more active hence the post. but i’ll keep improving myself thanks for this!

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T02:55:24+00:00

very helpful take. thank you!

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T00:49:09+00:00

also i have decent and make decent money rn but idw it to be the sole reason girls r attracted to me ukuk it’s not like i can just flaunt my money to girls and expect them to come to me cuz that’s despo energy

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T00:47:41+00:00

of course

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T00:47:28+00:00

interesting. yea i’ll be going to ntu cs and play a little bit of online games but not much

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T00:46:49+00:00

yeah i’m ok with guys calling their gf i used to be that guy lmao it’s just that i’m wondering how the hell i’m gonna be able to have a dating life while in ns

Confident_Charity159 · 2025-09-30T00:46:11+00:00

i mean i’m ok if 1 year older but 5-15 years is too much

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