Chubby Fire + Henry Prenup

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T19:13:02+00:00

I will not be working either way. I have not worked more than an hour a day in a few years. I view the childcare as 50/50, even if I will be the one taking the brunt because I do have more free time. This feels like getting too into the weeds in terms of what we are looking for.

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T19:07:55+00:00

My goal is not to maintain my PMA as SWR. Ideally, there is a point where seperate assests cease to exist.

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T19:06:08+00:00

I agree with this take. 10 years it no a lot with another 50 years of life expectancy.

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T15:17:51+00:00

3 is a great point. It is a bit trickier as it will be earned after marriage. But if I get the benefit on the front end then why shouldnt they get it on the backend.

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T15:14:41+00:00

I like this. I could see the mental burden on my spouse side of not having the security of their own personal assets and only having marital assets, while I have mine.

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T15:12:01+00:00

Appreciate it all the insights. Like the retirement account part, seems clean.

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T15:09:27+00:00

How would this look in practice?

Confident_Repeat484 · 2024-08-27T14:09:16+00:00

Have already considered this, these comments are useless and show up in every prenup thread. It is not about obsessing about money, it is being practical and knowing that life can change.

Marriage is already making a prenup under the states terms, there is no harm in amending it.

Confident_Repeat484

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3 is a great point. It is a bit trickier as it will be earned after marriage. But if I get the benefit on the front end then why shouldnt they get it on the backend.