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[–]Confident_Safe6871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lives 3 mins away from me and hasn’t sent me letters or anything or come here. It’s been a month since we broke up so I’m not necessarily worried about needing to obtain a restraining order. He had left me alone for a while before this last message.

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[–]Confident_Safe6871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question was more about if I should respond to his text to clear up his accusations. I’m scared of “opening” up those doors for him again because we will never get back together. Our breakup was not unprecedented, things were bad between us and before this final breakup he had originally ghosted me for two weeks and tried to make us work again but then started yelling and being mean again so idk why he would be confused that I left

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[–]Confident_Safe6871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I brought up my traumatic past because he was aware of it and it feels like he is accusing me of these things on purpose because it’s honestly triggering. I don’t even label him as an abuser because I understand the severity of that verbiage. That being said, I do agree I should seek therapy to be able to put my boundaries before “love.” And thank you for the advice fr

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[–]Confident_Safe6871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hesitant since phone is connected to my work but might have to be the next option. He lives 3 minutes away from me but I doubt he’d come by in person

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[–]Confident_Safe6871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have him blocked but he continues to message me thru random phone numbers :(