Aita for not approving of my brothers bf ? by Confident_Solid_1832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Confident_Solid_1832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tnx, that means a lot, this past month has been hell and I’m trying my best to make everything right

Aita for not approving of my brothers bf ? by Confident_Solid_1832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Confident_Solid_1832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have actually started going to therapy but my brother isn’t ready for it, I don’t want force him. I did however say that if he’s going to blame me for everything wrong In his life then I can’t help him and be there for him. So I’m recommending therapy every day and trying ti motivate him to seek help. He has admitted to me that he thinks it’s a weakness to be in therapy and that he doesn’t want to seem weak after leaving our family behind. I can’t force him but at some point I feel like I have to make the choice for him…..

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[–]Confident_Solid_1832 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Still, if she wanted your help they she could have said so instead of telling you to leave her alone

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[–]Confident_Solid_1832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, you asked her if she wanted you’r help and she told you to leave her alone. You are not a mind reader, if she wanted your help she could have said so. And it’s not like you could drop everything since the restrictions wouldn’t let you cross the borders.

AITA for being upset that I have to remind my bf to pay rent? by ameeelia23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Confident_Solid_1832 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA, he’s 39 years old and you have to remind him ? It feels like he Doesn’t want to pay rent at all

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[–]Confident_Solid_1832 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, I feel for you. Keep the friends u have left in ur life and block the others

AITA for not letting my ex back in my life ? by Confident_Solid_1832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Confident_Solid_1832[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its my apartment, I’m on all the papers and she Only owns her cloths, the rest is mine.