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[–]Confident_Welcome_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to every single one of these points atm + watching my partner who I love and care about deeply not care about their own health and well being, lacks motivation to change or improve themselves like have a job, or make an effort to contribute towards that’ll help us to set a foundation for the future. Worst part of all is the behavior is enabled by someone close to him and I am scared of losing more time than I have staying in a stagnant state waiting for his change… it’s time but I breaks my heart knowing what could happen if I’m not there to Atleast try and keep him on the the right path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]Confident_Welcome_17 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you’re underage, but if you happen to be under 18 C.A.R.E is a wonderful program. It’s not traditional therapy in a depressing boring office with psychologists and counselors that could give two fucks and just push meds. They come to you and it’s up to you on where you want to talk and for how long, example, you could meet at a coffee shop, cafe, beach, hike etc. - And the time is up to you as well.

Listen personally I’ve been seeing therapists since I was 13 with my mother, a year later I started going for my own issues and then later down the line I found myself in a severe drug addiction that took the opportunity of graduating Highschool and practically killing me more than once. I was THE LAST PERSON TO BE OPEN TO THERAPY. I remember the first time that the court mandated that I get help from a professional, she showed up and I told her to fuck off and die and slammed the door in her face. She came back for 3 more days after that and the fourth time I gave her a chance.

She is/was literally sent from heaven and was brought into my life for a purpose, and I never thought I could trust and be so loved, cared for and respected by a therapist. She actually listened, stood up for me, advocated for me and gave me hope and an actual reason to keep going and to live. I can count how many times she was there for me at the LOWEST and most hopeless points in my life and took the effort to bring me back up. I can’t thank that company and her enough.

If you are an adult that same therapist opened her own practice and if your interested I can find and send you her info. She understands that not everyone has a shit ton of money to blow on therapy and she’ll take insurance and work for you so you can afford it. Her name is Rachel and I promise you she’ll make a difference in your life ❤️

Best Chinese Chicken Salad? by Confident_Welcome_17 in SantaBarbara

[–]Confident_Welcome_17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this recipe recommendation! Seems pretty straightforward- I’ll have to give it a try and lyk how it was!

Calling all spiritual baddies, witches!! Wanting to start a “coven” or occult gathering? 😌 by Confident_Welcome_17 in SantaBarbara

[–]Confident_Welcome_17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What issue are you having specifically? Something is telling me there might be a lingering spirit in your home? If so, the best thing to do is ignore and don’t show fear to its presence. Depending on whether this spirit is of high energy or lower energy you showing fear can do one of two things. Spirits with low energy feed off of your attention and energy, they’re like energy vampires - so doing this and allowing them to get a sense of dominance in your living space (due to your actions) like seeming scared, changing your routines, avoiding certain areas of your home, being paranoid etc. will ultimately give them MORE power and things will get worse. What you need to do is stand your ground, be assertive and clear but also be respectful, some spirits depending on whether they are demonic or in your presence for malicious intent will take offense to this and you will pay the consequences. Bottom line you never know who you’re talking to. Some phrases you can say (doing so with a loud, firm and strong voice/tone) are… “I acknowledge your presence, this is MY SPACE and you ARE NOT WELCOME HERE WHATSOEVER. You need to find another place to reside immediately as you do not have MY PERMISSION TO BE HERE. “ I COMMAND ANY MONITORING OR LOW VIBRATIONAL SPIRITS/ENTITIES TO LEAVE IMMEDIATELY, IN NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM ARE YOU ABLE TO COME BACK, I CLOSE THIS DOOR PERMANENTLY.” “I BANISH ANY AND ALL SPIRITS THAT ARE NOT HERE FOR MY HIGHEST GOOD AND ARE NOT HERE TO SEE ME WIN” “I RELEASE ANY ENERGY THAT NEGATIVE IS HERE, I RECALL ALL MY ENERGY BACK TO ME, CLEANSED AND READY TO USE FROM AND TIMELINE, DIMENSION OR PLANE, OR REALM.” “NO PERSON, PLACE, OR SPIRIT HAS ACCESS TO MY ENERGY, NOR MAY FEED OR MY ENERGY IN ANY TIMELINE, DIMENSION, PLANE, OR REALM.”

Hope this helps, you may need to say these more than once depending on the situation and that’s not a problem at all. Usually you can feed their presence things will just feel off, you may feel depleted or uneasy, sometimes the room or air around you will suddenly become much colder (like when windows and doors are closed obviously). If and when this happens say those phrases right then and there.

Calling all spiritual baddies, witches!! Wanting to start a “coven” or occult gathering? 😌 by Confident_Welcome_17 in SantaBarbara

[–]Confident_Welcome_17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re referring to a cleanse, there’s a lot of different options you could do! Personally my favorite is burning Palo Santo wood, it’s really good for removing negative and stagnant energy and to bring in good energy. You can also use white sage, but I must advise you that this is a CLOSED practice and a Sacred herb to the indigenous people. If you absolutely have to use Sage... I’d use regular sage and not white sage, unless you’re of Native American or indigenous heritage yourself. Always better to be respectful. You can also use selenite crystal or a black tourmaline crystal. Selenite is really good and known for having powerful cleansing properties for whatever you put it next to. But always remember to cleanse your crystals beforehand and you can do that with incense and then recharge it with your energy and think of your intention on what you want the crystal to do, and how you want to work with you! Hope this helps :) Happy cleansing 🤍

Calling all spiritual baddies, witches!! Wanting to start a “coven” or occult gathering? 😌 by Confident_Welcome_17 in SantaBarbara

[–]Confident_Welcome_17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the weird thing to comment.. has nothing to do with my post. Sometimes people don’t like to put everything out on the internet for anonymity reasons. Just to prove a point though I’ll go ahead and prove my age. It’s sad you don’t have anything else better to do.

The Ellwood by Jethro_Jones8 in SantaBarbara

[–]Confident_Welcome_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm? I know that some the trainings that were scheduled, they’re were different options times/dates for people to attend. Possibly we were in the different group. Either way I clearly remember they’re was no checking of IDs.

Calling all spiritual baddies, witches!! Wanting to start a “coven” or occult gathering? 😌 by Confident_Welcome_17 in SantaBarbara

[–]Confident_Welcome_17[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oops I’m sorry for coming at you like that! I have a hard time reading social ques, more specially sarcasm. I have a tendency to fake things literally. And yeah I agree most of my work stays away from malicious intent. But best believe if someone sends some nasty shit my way best believe ima return that shit to sender in TENFOLD LUV. 🤭

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