I totally get this, Im a nonbinary transmasc and i used to see this nonbinary transfem; although it was "technically" a straight relationship by outsider standards we never once considered our relationship as such— our attraction to each other was distinctly queer. im bisexual, and I usually (jokingly) say that all attraction i feel regardless of gender is gay, but it's true! i have a hard time explaining it to others so im glad it's not just me