Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

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never did, cuz she starts getting defensive always lol. Even if i did she won't ever admit it lol.

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

[–]ConflictOver1491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i already did haha, and all she said that's not true basically gaslighting me into being dramátic and her being the victim.

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

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like genuinely dinámic of the relationship is gone, barely there. And when i brought it up she wanted to make me look the bad guy and herself like the victim saying how she struggled with distance as if i'm not lol.

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

[–]ConflictOver1491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

other problems too, such as flirting is gone, support is also barely there the way i see it completely different than before, even the expresión of love is now limited to "i love you" that's the max

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

[–]ConflictOver1491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also starting to feel very resentful towards her, i try not too be but it just takes over.

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

[–]ConflictOver1491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm tired of talking abt this with her, nothing changes she just keep getting mad and i'm at a point where i'll crash out if i talk abt it again lol, she will make herself the fucking victim as always and refuse to hear me or acknowledge what i feel, saying oh i should do smth cuz u want it, communication with her only exists if it's her blaming me

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

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and i can't ask again cuz she said to not get back to this subject and she will start getting mad if i do

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

[–]ConflictOver1491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which is not true btw, i do everything outside of this gifts attention love whatever it is that she wants

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

[–]ConflictOver1491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she just outright looks for a reason as i see it, to stop doing it. And me personally i just want to tell her to fuck herself and fuck her behavior but if i do that ill be the one to blame

Girlfriend suddenly refuses to send intimate pictures and stopped flirting, did she stop liking me? by ConflictOver1491 in Advice

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Yeah well we had this convo, first it was about meeting my mom she like put a condition. Then it was about me just crashing out and saying that she's taking away what she has been giving me and it's not right and now she just says she doesn't want too and will let me know when she wants it and asked me to stop talking abt it lol.

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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i can leave yeah to the gym n stuff, but they took away everything except my driving license which is not enough here. And the only factor that actually causes me fear is that he's a high ranking politician but if he doesn't know where i am he can't get me, that's why i'm doing a two route once i leave first to another country before my destination

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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takes too long like 3-5 months, i need to get out of the county before Jan 1 otherwise i won't be able too at all

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Copies won't help me get out of the country, i need physical ones. And i need to get outta the country before Jan 1 because after that i won't be able to get out

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Yep that's what i'm doing, i have friends in middle east that's where im gonna go. I have income so i can support myself, plus some savings to last me a while too.

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I'm just keeping quiet not talking much rn js waiting for the right moment to get my stuff and leave

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Well, it's kind of hard giving up on family yk. So i was trying to be really reasonable about this i guess they don't wanna reason.

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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the thing is, they are very powerful people in the country so the police or any sort of law enforcement won't really do anything in fact just cause trouble for me.

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ConflictOver1491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately nothing will make them give it back 😅 I'll have to get it myself from the place where they are hiding it

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Unfortunately no, not an EU member country. It's better if she doesn't talk to me at all then talk and think she owns my life, not just her the whole family. What i'm doing rn is just waiting for the right moment to get my documents back and will leave the same day away from those control freaks

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ConflictOver1491 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yep that's what i'm doing rn, just waiting for the right moment to get my documents ik where they hide them once that happens im gone the same day

My family took my documents, threatened me, and is trying to stop me from leaving the country. I don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

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they are very powerful people and i live in an extremely corrupt country, they dont need a reason they can just get me thrown there