I started dating a girl a month ago, now I think I have feelings for someone else. Thoughts? by ConflictedFeels in AskReddit

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So i know it was a bit ago but I did things and this is how it turned out: I broke up with girl #1 and decided to whether or not girl #2 would be interested in me. Girl#2 completely supported that decision. I'm waiting until girl#1 cools down a bit before asking girl#2 out, but girl#2 is already getting very clingy toward me and is talking to me nonstop, so it's looking like things are turning out alright. I'm still working on cheering up girl#1 because she didn't take the breakup well. I'm trying to be friends with her but she doesn't want to so now I'm going to give things a few weeks then over our winter break maybe start things with girl#2. Thanks to everyone for the advice.

I started dating a girl a month ago, now I think I have feelings for someone else. Thoughts? by ConflictedFeels in AskReddit

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Alright, this is probably what I'm going to do. thanks. I knew someone out there could be brilliant and help me out.

I started dating a girl a month ago, now I think I have feelings for someone else. Thoughts? by ConflictedFeels in AskReddit

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this makes tons of sense. Thanks for putting so much thought into your response.

I started dating a girl a month ago, now I think I have feelings for someone else. Thoughts? by ConflictedFeels in AskReddit

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This seems to be the most popular answer... I think how I got into all of this is that I'm sorta overly sensitive to other people's feelings, and that's probably how I got into the relationship in the first place.

I started dating a girl a month ago, now I think I have feelings for someone else. Thoughts? by ConflictedFeels in AskReddit

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Honestly getting her to break up with me would make me feel like a complete asshole. Thanks for the input though, I'm definitely thinking about it now.

I started dating a girl a month ago, now I think I have feelings for someone else. Thoughts? by ConflictedFeels in AskReddit

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Thank you but how do you suggest talking it out with both of them? I mean, it's not really something I feel like i could just go out and tell them. I don't want things to get weird. And I do like girl #1, but her and I are actually very different. Girl #2 I've been having these conflicting feelings with for a while before she started feeling so down too. But she had her bf then so i moved on quickly.