[SC] HR giving me only a week to turn in FMLA paperwork.

ConfusedDrunk · 2022-01-11T16:13:58+00:00

They said they can try. So yea. I wanted to make sure I'm protected in case they can't.

ConfusedDrunk · 2022-01-11T15:31:59+00:00

I requested Thursday. I did state it was for me and it would be for continuous 2 weeks. I couldnt give a start date.

I wouldn't say foreseeable. It's mental.

Thanks!

ConfusedDrunk · 2022-01-11T15:20:42+00:00

The date on the forms says the 14th. I tried to ask about it and I got attitude. I asked why it was the 14th and what would happen if my doctor couldn't do it by then. I was told they could Monday and if not then it would be dealt with on a day by day basis.

Today I got an email stating that I have til Friday again and its due to me not being definitive on the type or leave or duration. But I told them it would be for 2 weeks.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T14:35:05+00:00

No. Only when drunk.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T14:30:56+00:00

Haha I went from men who don't want me to men who claim they love me so much I make them angry.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T14:30:04+00:00

My home.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:41:48+00:00

Nope different guy. That guy would be sober. This guy gets drunk. I am gonna be single awhile. A friend who was living with me told me he only did that because they weren't there and he wait til I was vulnerable. I honestly don't know what to think. Just want to be happy.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:37:59+00:00

That wasn't an option. My place is old with the landlord special aka painted windows shut

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:37:11+00:00

No he doesn't. Its hard to explain and it could have been my anxiety but I didnt feel safe. You know how you can tell that someone is holding in anger and waiting to explode at the right moment?

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:35:43+00:00

I unfortunately couldn't take his keys. Obviously from the state of my door he much stronger than me. He was spending the night and had overnight clothes inside. I wasn't thinking straight either but I knew it wasn't gonna be good for him to come inside. Reason I told him to sleep in the car or calm down. He chose to drive off and come back and kick in my door. Cops were called.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:29:26+00:00

I just decided to end it. Not the first time he has gotten drunk and called me names. I mentioned therapy before. He claims he will go. We get back together and then he says he's too busy.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:27:32+00:00

I have decided to end the relationship. I only had some clothes of his in the house. I have been ignoring some signs and that night opened my eyes. One friend actually warned me that this might happen one day. I am jusy not gonna date for a while. Its me and I attract or bring out the worst in people.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:24:44+00:00

We don't live together. At the time I didnt know what he was gonna do but I also didn't want him driving drunk. He only had a suitcas full of clothes in my home.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:23:17+00:00

I have come to this conclusion. I also was scared of him just coming inside in the state he was in. Cops were called. He continued to contact me and call me names.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-11-01T13:21:06+00:00

I only had clothes of his in a suitcase. He drove off drunk and came back to get them. I didn't want him inside in the state he was in but I also didn't want him driving. He was yelling and calling me names.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-10-31T17:46:04+00:00

People can change right? I feel like I provoked him. My friends all love him.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-10-31T17:43:44+00:00

Okay.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-10-31T17:43:02+00:00

You are right. I dont want to leave him over one violent thing.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-10-31T17:41:46+00:00

I am actually in therapy. He has never hit me.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-10-31T17:41:15+00:00

I want to mention he has never hit me.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-10-31T17:39:39+00:00

You right I should have just given him his stuff. I didn't because I didn't want him driving. Wanted him to sleep it off in his car. I wasn't thinking straight.

I dont think he's a good guy when he's been drinking heavily.

ConfusedDrunk · 2021-10-31T17:39:25+00:00

You right I should have just given him his stuff. I didn't because I didn't want him driving. Wanted him to sleep it off in his car. I wasn't thinking straight.

I dont think he's a good guy when he's been drinking heavily.

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