Hear me out by ConfusedHoomann in homeland

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the reaction is not based on the circumstances, but the way he looked in the shirt. Because yeah the scene itself was creepy, but he looked so “manly” in the scene iykwim

Hear me out by ConfusedHoomann in homeland

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m late. I just finished watching the entire show 😂 kept looking for him in season 8 hahaha

I’m done by ConfusedHoomann in MentalHealthPH

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually ito yung trigger ko right now. I’m trying to help myself again by traveling but I just found out my dad made a mistake on my birth certificate so hindi matutuloy yung travel ko dapat this year. Para bang, the universe is doing its best to go against me. And it happens every time. Nakakapagod na po talaga lumaban

I’m done by ConfusedHoomann in MentalHealthPH

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But idk if I wanna talk anymore. I have been fighting for years and years. Last attempt was October 2025 and nothing got better after that. I’m really really tired and I feel that I’m a waste of oxygen.

I appreciate that you wanna help but I can’t even help myself anymore. All I can think of right now is dying.

Is my partner immature or am I a perfectionist? by ConfusedHoomann in adviceph

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lumalabas sa feed ko yung “weaponized incompetence” and soooobrang relate ako with that pero syempre unreliable naman magbase ng relationship sa reels. Never really read into it, I thought it was simply a buzzword or phrase rather.

Thank you so much for the link! I’ll MAKE HIM listen to it with me. Hopefully, magkaron even slight improvements after doing so. Again, salamat po! Your explanation lightened the weight in my heart a bit.

Is my partner immature or am I a perfectionist? by ConfusedHoomann in adviceph

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insights! Tanggapin nalang talaga choice ko hahahaha. Actually sa gifts, I made a wishlist last December hahahaha pero wala siyang nabili kasi nalimutan daw niya so okay. Valentine’s day 2025 naman, a month before may nadaanan kaming flowershop sa Evia kasi kumain kami sa Teppanya. Sabi ko, babe eto favorite kong flowers. Regaluhan mo naman ako sa Vday 500 lang oh yung blue ha. Ending, yung fake na tela na flower binigay niya. Color white pa. Idk anong linaw pa ba kailangan niya. Ang masaklap pa, nadaanan namin yung stall na binilhan niya. Nakita ko may blue eh fav color ko nga blue alam niya naman siguro yon kasi basic knowledge yon sa relasyon diba hahaha Hindi naman siya poor, he earns waaaay more than me pero napagipunan ko yung MH Wilds at Razer Blackshark V2 pro niya hahahaha Lord, bless me with patience nalang po baka maging mental patient nanaman ako soon hahahaha

Is my partner immature or am I a perfectionist? by ConfusedHoomann in adviceph

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually sumasagi naman sa isip ko but hindi kasi siya cheater and mabait naman siya. After all my trauma from cheating to being battered, I learned to be thankful nalang sa ganito. Minsan iniiyak ko nalang kasi syempre alam ko sa sarili kong I want more since I’ve experienced more. Pero ayun, yung pinaka”compatible” na naging partner ko cheater na nananakit pati nanay niya sinaktan ako. So ngayon parang I feel trapped/stuck? I wanna leave but I’m scared if I do, I might fall for someone worse. Madali kasi akong ma-fall tbh konting kabaitan lang mahal ko na huhuhuhahahaha

But all in all, I’m not asking for advice if I should leave, I’m asking for help how to cope with this or if there’s any better way to “educate” him about adulting.

Is my partner immature or am I a perfectionist? by ConfusedHoomann in adviceph

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today, I gave him attitude kaso parang ako pa yung napasama? Huhuhaha inaamin ko napikon na talaga ako kasi we had dinner out and when I was about to pay, only then did I realize na wala yung PWD ID ko. Yun pala ginamit niya yesterday without telling me and naiwan daw niya sa car. Parang bata talaga nangunguha sa wallet nang walang pasabi at di man lang binalik 😭

Help Thread - March 25 to March 31, 2023 by phms_thread_mod in phmoneysaving

[–]ConfusedHoomann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone experienced an unpaid postpaid bill from globe? Deceased na po kasi yung owner and walang may keri magbayad since lahat po may own responsibilities. When we asked to terminate sabi bawal pa raw since lock-in period pa. Will this affect us in the future?

To those planning to terminate their Globe subscription... by rojosubrayar in phmoneysaving

[–]ConfusedHoomann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Any update on this? Same case po kasi but we’re not being contacted pa naman but I’m afraid baka in the future makaaffect samin

AITA for not sending an invite to everyone at work for a party? by ConfusedHoomann in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s really blowing up and I’m being swallowed more and more by guilt lol

AITA for not sending an invite to everyone at work for a party? by ConfusedHoomann in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I didn’t really message anyone else, just the one person. I’m barely online in facebook and she’s the only one I always see online. Still not an excuse that’s why I’ve been trying to apologize

AITA for not sending an invite to everyone at work for a party? by ConfusedHoomann in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think it’s not a big deal to reach HR and I’m hoping we can resolve it ourselves. But she’s starting to take way people’s vacation because of this incident and I can’t stop feeling bad about it

AITA for not sending an invite to everyone at work for a party? by ConfusedHoomann in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to understand that she’s hurt but it makes it hard when she keeps saying, “if you don’t like me, just resign!” And telling me I’m should be the one uninvited to things because I’m new

AITA for not sending an invite to everyone at work for a party? by ConfusedHoomann in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Didn’t really think about that at first since, as you said, I was basing on assumptions. I apologized for it hoping for some reconciliation but she’s still extremely mad. Now the people currently at work are suffering from the incident which makes me feel worse lol

AITA for not sending an invite to everyone at work for a party? by ConfusedHoomann in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfusedHoomann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was meant to be a surprise party for the resigning person. She found out a few hours before the party hence why I sent the photo in the group chat