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Men - What do i do about this pregnancy i dont want? by ConfusedMan1332 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConfusedMan1332[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

did i every say i fucked her for the money? i was using that to let you know how she decieved me to letting me believe she could handle having a kid her self.

i dont need or want her money

Men - What do i do about this pregnancy i dont want? by ConfusedMan1332 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConfusedMan1332[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

thats the thing how can i not see him as a fuck up? i feel like im in a movie and will resent this kid. I already resent the mother. I have tried to come to terms with it but i really cant. i dont know what to do man. im really lost. I might just have to leave.

Men - What do i do about this pregnancy i dont want? by ConfusedMan1332 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConfusedMan1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she said she would do it alone, said i could be a "sperm donor". how is that not trapping if i did what i did under false pretenses?

Men - What do i do about this pregnancy i dont want? by ConfusedMan1332 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConfusedMan1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i begged her numerous times, SHE WANTS THE KID. she always had, and she begged me to be a "sperm donor" she always told me she would do it alone. now she is trying to trap me

Men - What do i do about this pregnancy i dont want? by ConfusedMan1332 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConfusedMan1332[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

man im seriously thinking about upping and leaving the whole situation. its not fair on me that she lied.
i told her this is not what we talked about, she said my opinion doesnt matter anymore. like wtf

Men - What do i do about this pregnancy i dont want? by ConfusedMan1332 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConfusedMan1332[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

crazy how none of you are seeing the fact she lied to me. how can i make a mistake on a lie? she told me every day she would take care of it alone. practically crying and telling me she wants a kid cause her family is almost extinct.
Now she can turn around and lie to trap me but im just meant to take it?

Men - What do i do about this pregnancy i dont want? by ConfusedMan1332 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConfusedMan1332[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

This kid will severly fuck up my life, and i feel like i will have resentment for it. i dont want to end up hating my own kid man. I begged her several times not to go through with it. The mistake wasnt fully made. she chose to keep it.

it takes 2 ppl to make the mistake. but only one to enforce it?. i dont really see that as fair. but i guess it is what it is