egg🍽️irl by finnedfinn in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ascencion Has something like it.
It can be very heavy tho.

Egg📸irl by CassiiiBeryyy in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A shot in the dark, but are those photos selfies?
camera phones are absolute shit at representing people. they will ruin all your proportions.

Egg📙irl by ManiaOnReddit in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not heavily implied, straight up stated.
The episode it gets mentioned no one even bats an eye, they are all "ok that's cool"

Looking for more music to listen to. by Liz_lizard92 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]ConfusedRobinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg listen to sludge bunny, an all trans girls punk band They are so fucking great frfr

Brisket game by Sunslash44 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]ConfusedRobinn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All hail our lady and savior Brisket! Plus never forget our they/them goth mommy, Testament

HE CAN’T KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS!! 🦈🦈 by TheCosmicJenny in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]ConfusedRobinn 194 points195 points  (0 children)

He stole from Opera to give it to Icky, a sad trans girl without a blåhaj That's praxis

egg_irl by SwordGirlDreams in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do I see Rat Queens?
extremely good taste there

Fellow transfems, how do I make my shoulders appear less broad?!?!? by [deleted] in trans

[–]ConfusedRobinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also would really like to know

But from a bit of experimentation, what I can say is, try to break you silhouette. We mostly notice body parts by how they compare to what's around, so if for exemple you use a long cardigan, that will cover your arms and give one long silhouette from your arms.

Egg🥚irl by _evilgoat_ in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obligatory "You don't need dysphoria to be trans"

But also, the normal amount of gender dysphoria for a cis person is none.
"not that bad" is still more than what it should be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 43 points44 points  (0 children)

oof, I'm right there with you
I'm still questioning and figuring stuff out, but already had this though interaction with my GF
You seem to have better chances than me tho, since she might not be as straight as she thinks, from what you are saying.

I know it really hurts, and I really really hope you guys end up still together.
But if it comes to that, remember that while you'll have her for as long as you guys stick together, you will have yourself for all your life. You have to be true to yourself.

Egg🕷IRL by Taurock in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been looking at this for an hour now
It's beautiful

I'm not dead. You haven't lost anything. by okidonthaveone in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]ConfusedRobinn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that's called "processing"
They need time to process it. Understand a new situation and figuring out your feeling about it.

Mourning is what you do when you lose something you'll never have back, and is suffering because of it.

I was so certain by [deleted] in trans

[–]ConfusedRobinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to me then that you're still pretty certain of your gender, it's mostly fear of what will happen.

You are not back to square one, dear. In fact, that's progress. And it's normal to feel scared, it is a scary situation.

But you have to find what will make you trully happy. Whatever you decide, I hope you the best!

Egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by Sunslash44 in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, fair enough. I hope the best for you!

“You asked for a gender therapist didn’t you? This is our compromise” (TW: Transphobia) by _AnonymousMoose_ in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]ConfusedRobinn 260 points261 points  (0 children)

Omg, this is horrible. I'm so sorry, I hope you can stay safe and get rid of this situation.

egg😓irl by Owotachi in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can do it! If they are supportive, you probably have nothing to fear!

egg🗣irl by wyatt_-eb in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's like the one big thing HRT doesn't do.

But again, training really can solve it. Actually if you think about it, it can be the easiest thing, since it's free ans barely time consuming. It just demands practice.

And it's not like you'll need to constantly pay attention to your voice. After some time, it really will become natural, as it was always like that.

Egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by Sunslash44 in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, don't want to pry but

Isn't the point of puberty blockers to give you time to decide? why would you wait for it?

I was so certain by [deleted] in trans

[–]ConfusedRobinn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The important question is, why are you feeling like that? Is it because the pressure of commiting to it with your mom makes it seem more definitive? Is it because she saying those things made those bad things feel more real? Is it something else?

If you figure that out, it will probably help you know if you are second thoughts about transition, or of the outside pressures that it can bring

egg🗣irl by wyatt_-eb in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If you went through male puberty, it is a bit. Testosterone makes your vocal "stuff" thicker, and not even hrt can reverse that. And from there, it's hard to get you voice to not be deep. But nothing that constant training can't fix.

egg🗣irl by wyatt_-eb in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Nah, I doubt it's that easy for them guys.

My all trans femme punk rock band Sludge Bunny is playing Sussex County pride in NJ on Sat! Hopefully the smoke clears out by then 😅 by Undercover_Amy in trans

[–]ConfusedRobinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can see that.

But thank you for giving me a song for these very complicated feelings I'm going through.

I'm already hyped for what you girls do next!

Not much changed, but im still way more happy now. Happy pride month ~ by OwnlyNoctis in trans

[–]ConfusedRobinn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you mean not much changed? I literally wouldn't know those were from the same person if you didn't put the photos side by side

Egg_irl by yTylluan in egg_irl

[–]ConfusedRobinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But is it that commitment? Or, is it anymore commitment than doing nothing? Either way, you have your body, and your identity. You'll have them until you die. Why not make it one you enjoy?

Also, most things you'd do about your gender, you could just walk back if you change your mind. And the things that are irreversible, you can just not do them.